TWW thread around 27/02/23

[TTCing]

Hi ladies,

who wants to join for the tww? I had peak fertility on 25/02/23. So I think I may have ovulated 26/02/23.

now in the tww.

who wants to join?

I’m TTC#2, month 8 of TTC this time. 16 months TTC #1.

I can’t say I’m feeling particularly hopeful. I’m used to the disappointment (again), sadly.

@TTCagain85 gutted for you sending you 💗💗 xxxxx

How are you today @Freya8 ? Xxx

@Floralsandsmiles 12dpo havent bothered to test as purposely didnt buy anymore to stop me lol!! Had dull achey cramps. Hows u my lovely? Xxxx

@Freya8 aww bless you! Well done for resisting the urge! Lol 12dpo is good!
Erm spotting has stopped? I had some cramping last night but stopped.its so weird! I did a test this morning and stark white BFN 😔
I just don't get it! I am watching Alex Cross - making babies though and feel abit calmer about IVF should we have to go down this route.. xxxx

@Floralsandsmiles repeat after me we arent out until the witch shows... who my kiddin lol inwardly i am crumblin i keep ready stories of ppl who hav implanted late n only got bfp 14dpo and after. What really baffles me is right so say this is the lead up to period coming.. and i wasnt ttc.. am i supposed to accept these god awful symptoms each month over and overrrrrrr like my bloat is shocking shocking i tell you an hasnt really disappeared other than one bloody morning but then came back that night. That aint food related at all as i am never ever bloated like that. So glad i can vent on this wat i really wana do is scream!!! Im pleased you are becoming calmer though about your journey i guess i am just starting out and i tried to fully go in with the mentality of what will be will be but jeez that was out the window by day 3 lollll thats a positive tho bout ur spottin stopping. Hoping this week brings us def answers xxxx

@TTCagain85 I'm so sorry to hear AF arrived. It never gets easier does it 💛

Hope to hear more positive news soon for those testing in the coming days. I'm still waiting for AF, two to three days late now. The most incredible squinter on a test but I think it's more of an indent/ evap. I just don't know what to think anymore. I guess just waiting it out will tell one way or another.

@Floralsandsmiles what channel is this on please? Sounds interesting.

Aww hun @Freya8 ! I feel you, I really do! I know some people don't have high enough hormones for pregnancy tests to show before AF is due.. and then we Cling to that hope lol
These symptoms though are a killer! I mean, it feels now we ate more in tune with our bodies, they decide to play up! Lol
Go ahead and Vent! I know I am! My DH thinks I'm going nuts! Lol
I am calmer, but that's probably because I've convinced myself I'm not out yet... I'm sure that will go tits up when I do though lol
I hope we find out what is going on soon! And we can get some clarity to move forward xxxxxx

@TTC53 it's on uktv app. It's amazing! Set at kings fertility in London xxx

@TTCagain85 so sorry to hear AF came, hope you are okay ❤️

@Floralsandsmiles sorry to hear about your test this morn too, really hope you get some answers this week as to what's going on! Xx

I decided not to test in the end so here we go, 12dpo

Ow I did the test with SMU and bfn 😞 I wana tell myself maybe it's still too early but realistically AF probably on the way !

Aww I'm sorry @Piglet34 ! I'm 13DPO and same. Gutting! You aren't out until AF arrives though! Thinking of you! Xxxz

@Piglet34 gutting the bfns same dpo as you just wont test

Theres my left boob gettin sore combined wit cramps doesnt look good xx

@TTCagain85 I’m so sorry AF arrived, sending love.

@Floralsandsmiles I love that show! Very sad to watch sometimes isn’t it but so interesting and lovely when they get good news.

Agreed @Lilothblos! I'm in tears nearly episode from either sad or good news! Xxx

Well AF finally made an appearance for me. No idea why it was so late or my temps were so high. Just off to mope into a glass of wine. Luck to everyone else

@TTC53 awh sorry to hear that 💗💗💗
Xxx

Aww I'm sorry @TTC53 ! Sending you hugs xxx

I’m sorry @TTC53 , a wine and a mope is definitely a good idea, we’re here with you xx

Morning girls how are u all? So i got those wee easy at home tests delivered done one this morn at 13 dpo and bfn. No clue wats goin on in my body here as crampin like mad yest and boob twinges and zaps and underarm pain. Its so strange its like im clingin onto zero hope. Feel so bloody emotionally drained. Sorry jus brain dumpin all the shite wizzin round in my head here. Yeh i mean im officially just baffled n then i go an read that yeh if u get a neg pretty much at 12dpo or above then consider that accurate and that your out 😪 unless stoppin the pills jus messed me up an that was a false lh surge on the static smiley. Sorry again for the mumbles xxx

Morning @Freya8. Sorry that it's all so uncertain for you right now. It's not what you want to hear but there's really nothing you can do but just wait it out and see how your cycle develops. I think it's more likely to have had a BFP by 12dpo but it's certainly not uncommon to have one after it too. Try waiting another 48 hours and testing again if AF hasn't arrived.

@TTC53 thanks babes i know 😘 lit is wat i would be advising any of you. Sorry i lit jus feel like crying my eyes out this morn. I think im annoyed at myself for believing that it would just go like the first time. Need to jus chill out an accept i need to wait on this xxx

@TTC53 sorry to hear your AF showed! :( really hope you get your bfp this next cycle xx

@Freya8 I am in the exact same boat with all the uncertainty so I feel you it is really hard! I know what you mean about feeling like there can't be a chance after 12/13dpo but you never know 100% until AF shows, although I'm also trying to just prepare myself mentally that AF probably will be coming. If you are just off the pill then that does usually have an affect for a month or two while your body gets used to it so could be the reason for weird symptoms. I'm not testing again now until Friday when AF is due. I would wait until Saturday which would technically be a day late for AF but my DH is away for 10 days from Friday eve 😞 really hope I can get answers before then!

Sorry to hear this @Freya8 . I really feel for you, as I'm the same. I'm sorry! Xxxx

@Piglet34 and @Floralsandsmiles

Awh girls all in the same boat!! Jeez i swear if i didnt have yous to go through this with i dont know wat i would do. Not that i wish this on anyone. Think im gonna man up and just accept i am out and try and mentally prep myself for next cycle. Im jus wish af would show then so i can get this over an done with xx

I conquer @Freya8 . So glad I have you girls to talk to. No idea what's going on! I just I'm out as I'm 14DPO and no AF and BFN. So it's a waiting game to get this awful cycle out of the way! Sorry to hear that @Piglet34 and @Freya8 , you are both in same boat too! Xxx