My DP and I are in our mid 30s and decided to TTC our first soon. My DP went food shopping a couple weeks ago and picked up some prenatals for me to take (off his own bat, I hadn't asked him to), has asked me a couple times if I'd been taking them, asked questions about childcare, names, shown me car seats.
Decided to go for it this cycle and DTD unprotected yesterday at CD14. Afterwards my DP went into a complete panic! I asked if he was unsure about wanting a baby and he said no, I asked if he wanted me to get the MAP and again he said no (while still hyperventilating). He still said no when I asked him again when he'd calmed down this morning, but admitted to still being panicked.
His mum had her first young and really pushed home that sex was bad and pregnancy was the worst possible consequence of sex, so he says he's just struggling to shake the feeling like he's doing something wrong. He says he was similar about having sex back in his 20s when he lost his virginity, but lost the guilt with time (his first gf left him over it). But it was still so awful seeing him in that state!
Do I take him at his word that he still wants to continue and push through the guilt or do I decide that we should stop TTC?