yes there is hope, listen to my story!!
I married in 2000 and we were TTC for 7 years. I always thought something was wrong when nothing happened. My husband had his sperm checked ..ok. That left possible problems with me. In Feb 2005, I fell pregnant, did not have a period for almost 55 days and was convinced I was pregnant. We were about to take a pregnancy test, when suddenly I had sharp pains and was rushed to hospital, RESULT: a fatal ectopic, left tube had burst and emergency life-saving surgery. Then a year later still no joy. We tried IVF in October 2006, which failed and we lost 1,500 pounds. I was mega depressed for weeks - negative result and bill arrived at the same time. The IVF follow-up discussion resulted in me being booked-in for an operation on 21st december 2006 (laproscopy and tube dye test ), to check out my womb and remaining tube. Before the operation my husband and I flew out to New Zealand for a holiday and we were due to return the day before the operation. Whilst we were in new zealand I did not get my December period, but just put it down to the stress of the failed IVF. A few days before we were due to fly back home I wrote an email to my doctor from an internet cafe, explaining that I had better wait until I have had my period and that it would be best to postpone the operation (as I thought that if I got my period the day before the operation, i would not be able to contact the doctor because I would be on the plane home - hence the email to him before we left ). I still did not think pregnant. Anyway, we arrived back home and on the operation day, still no period. Then when I missed Januarys period - a home pregnancy test revealed my pregnancy. It is also fate - had I not sent an email to the doctor and just followed his advice and had the operation, then the baby would not be here today. She is beautiful. There is hope.
Some advice: Maybe pop into a fertility clinic. You do not necessarily have to IVF, as they can also monitor your cycle and check to see which ovary ovulates and tell you when it would be best to try to conceive. If the ovary with the functioning tube is lazy (as in my case ) they can give you hormone treatment to stimulate - which they also did to me. I think, that after those hormones and the ones from IVF my lazy ovary was jump started into action and I now have a beautiful baby girl. Chin up, I have every faith you can conceive, even if with a small amount of help is needed along the way.