I’ll start this by saying I know it is quite unlikely that I am pregnant but I just want to know when I should consider myself ‘out’ as I would normally have a few drinks on Christmas Day.
Background is that I’m breastfeeding my 11 month old (3 times a day and no night feeds). I haven’t had my periods return yet. DH and I would like another baby so we haven’t been using any contraceptive.
10th-12th dec I had cramps that felt like period pains for the first time and was expecting af to arrive. I had some EWCM so thought this may have been ovulation instead
On Monday (19th) I had some sharp pains
I’ve been bloated, have lost my appetite and generally exhausted (despite sleeping more than ever!)
I took a frer test this morning with fmu and it was negative.
I am expecting af is on its way but have a niggling feeling that I could be pregnant.
When should I consider myself definitely not pregnant if af never arrives?