TTC 15 months no luck

[Gkb90]

Hi ladies, hoping I could get some help from you all or help to clear my mind.
I’ve been TTC for 15 months now, as I have never ‘accidentally’ fallen pregnant before when we wasn’t trying or being careful I started to get worried as it hit the 1 year mark trying. Me and my husband both went to a fertility clinic for tests etc my scan and bloods came back fine and his SA test came back fine too. We were now given three months to try again and for me to make lifestyle changes as I put on weight during the pandemic and have struggled to lose it and was told my BMI is high and needs to be brought down until I have to go for a tubal patency test which I am really dreading as my three months is nearly up.
Everyone around me is falling pregnant and I’m so happy for them but also wishing it would be me sharing my good news but every month my AF comes I just feel low and defeated.
Has anyone been or in the same situation and could shed some light? Thank you xxx

its been about 14mnths for me and never had a bfp. ive only had a scan and bloods which they said were fine, husband yet to get checked but we are waiting til the new year hopefully. Sometimes it takes 2 yrs for couples to get preg apparently but all the best for us both.

Hi did u get ya bfp after

hi @Gkb90 how are you and any updates? its now been over 2 years for me and ive recommenced fertility checks. i was found to have high prolactin and theyre just monitoring this at the moment.

Are you eating things like low fat soup to get weight down ?
Are you doing regular exercise ?
I bought an indoor exercise bike - its actually fun and quite addictive.
Im.also trying to get my weight down

@carsty hi, still no luck on my end. I’ve just taken a break over Christmas and at the end of Jan when my next cycle starts I’m taking letrozole 5mg and a trigger shot so hoping this helps! Me and DH have both gone on a big detox and loaded up on our vitamins so hopefully we have better luck. If we are still not pregnant after a few months of trying this we have decided to opt for IVF. How are you getting on xx

Hi @Gkb90 No change also trying to load up on supplements and eating better. I will also have repeat bloods due to high prolactin that may impact fertility. Dh also awaiting checks.