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[Mumbrava]

Hello friends. This is our 3rd month trying after a miscarriage at 14 weeks.

this time we dtd every day for two weeks…before and after my ovulation to cover all bases. We have avoided caffeine for 4 months…both husband and I take multi vitamins. We eat healthy. We are both 33 years old. No health issues thank fully.

today I tested at 13dpo and it’s negative. I’m lost for words. I know there is no certainty with these things but I genuinely thought this month was our month since we tried every day. I am deflated. I don’t understand how these things work…how is that we try everyday and I do not fall pregnant. I know it’s a silly question but it’s a depressing thought to think that you give your all and it’s just not enough.

i gave birth to our daughter five years ago when I was 27. Makes me think is it age related. I just don’t understand and I don’t know what I’m really asking for except some words of comfort perhaps or maybe advice. Thank you.

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage and that you are going through this ❤️ Can’t offer much advice but just to say that I can relate to this. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks back in April and have been trying ever since…now on cycle number 7. I am also constantly questioning why I haven’t fallen pregnant again particularly as I have been so lucky in the past and always fallen on the first cycle ( I have 2 children already and got pregnant first cycle trying with both and then the baby I lost was also first cycle trying again). Like you I wonder if it’s age related as I have just turned 36. But even so it does all just seem unfair and frustrating. I would say that 3 months is still early as they say around 6 months to a year but I completely understand that doesn’t make it any easier 💕

Bless you, thank you for sharing your story.

I had a missed miscarriage a few months back, completely different to your loss at 14 weeks but its hard bouncing back from that sometimes. But keep positive and keep trying. It will happen! ⭐️
Sorry I can't help out otherwise!

@Mumbrava sending you positive vibes ❤️
I was pregnant with our first at 39! Gave birth one week after I turned 40. Healthy beautiful bub. So it's totally possible.

All I can is relax and keep trying...sometimes stress can have an impact....
I know it's hard.
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At your age it's probably more bad luck than anything else as you are well within the normal range of how long it can take. When you look at the probability of falling pregnant it's ridiculously low, it's a flipping miracle anyone falls pregnant but that doesn't make it any easier when it's not happening for you. Best of luck and if it makes you feel better I had both my children over 36 x

So sorry for your loss❤

Next cycle don't stress and do it every other day. Its not good for sperm to do it every day. Get some preseed and a soft cup worked for me. X