Hi
I’m just going through my second CP in two months. I’m starting to feel like it’s never going to happen for us and don’t know how I will cope with another. I think the worst part is when people say “at least it wasn’t a real baby” - has anybody had similar? I’ve been off work for 2 days because before I left I was just sat crying at my desk. I’m happier at home with my toddler as I’m distracted, but paranoid about work wondering why I can’t go to work. I daren’t leave the house but we have things planned this weekend that we’ve had planned for months. Am I meant to sit in home crying or can I go? How do you respond to comments such as the one I mentioned? Another is when people tell me at least I already have a child. This doesn’t make anything easier. I know I’m lucky to have a child, but the two losses are still heartbreaking. As soon as we starting to TTC, I planned everything in my head. As soon as you see the two lines on a test, you think about the months ahead and the due date. It’s such a crap thing to say.