Hi all
Looking for some opinions. I have been TTC for my first baby for over a year with 1 miscarriage in May. I am 41 next month and am getting married in July 2023.
My period has started today which was my last chance to have a baby without worrying before the wedding.
If I conceive next month the due date would be 2 weeks before the wedding. If I conceive the month after the due date would be 2 weeks after the wedding. So my question is, given that I will be 41 next month would you hold off trying to conceive for 2 months to avoid the uncertainty around the wedding?
I don’t need a dream wedding where everything is perfect and amazing, I am quite relaxed and happy with some inconveniences. It is also close by my house so not far to travel. But obviously I wouldn’t want to give birth on the day/be in a lot of pain.
Would you keep trying anyway? Or would one month be better to try than the other if I just skipped one month?
Would like to hear your views. Thanks, and good luck to all of you trying.