Ttc & parter not cooperating

[Gemma2022]

when i told him i am ovulating he has gone up to bed and gone asleep early
is he trying to sabotage this? He says he’s not he forgot or was tired from work
thats another month & cycle wasted

There is more than just one day to conceive!

Interesting.. mines exactly the same.
I have to initiate EVERYTHING which is just tiresome and makes it feel like a chore.

Mine is very keen on not 'pressuring' me though which could explain some of mine. Still extremely annoying/off putting though.

Always 'listen' to other peoples behaviour.

All behaviour is communication.

If it was important or a priority to him, I'm sure he wouldn't have gone to bed to sleep.

Consent matters even when ttc. If he didn’t feel up for having sex then he’s allowed to refuse.

Well it's possible he doesn't want a baby.
It's possible he just didn't want sex.
Also the egg will still be around tonight. Try something other than "I'm ovulating, you must inseminate me now"

🤣 @SleepingStandingUp i will well I didn’t say that in bed i told him on the phone when i done the ovulation test
this is he’s been doing it all week and i think its passed now
but not like this when im not ovulating

Maybe he doesn’t like the pressure of knowing when your ovulating do perhaps don’t mention it. If it’s not that then I would have concerns over his commitment or genuine want to TTC.