Hey all,
Hope you're all ok, @R55 I am so sorry to hear all you've been through, it touches every part of your life doesn’t it? I really hope something gives soon so you can move on and that you have understanding people around you.
@Ttc91 I'm with CRGH at the stims stage, so obviously not at the point where I know how it's going with 'results'. However so far in a practical sense it has been much better than my NHS/create round, that said (and I think this might be true everywhere) it's still quite a bewildering process I've listed some of the pro's and cons so far over my last clinic, but I also don't know if this is in part the difference between NHS/Private - technically I feel like it shouldn't make that much difference, but I think it possibly does in terms of exploring options and communication.
Pro's:
Doctor of my choice specialises in endo
Doctor has their own medical sec (not CRGH) who is great and I can contact very easily (WhatsApp etc) and has given me advice on smaller things, made appointments for me, helped me get medication quotes etc
Generally quite easy to contact CRGH (callback/portal are helpful too)
You don't pay at reception (at Create there were lots of people looking stressed in front of other people with credit cards)
Stims plan and medication was gone through very thoroughly with a nurse and all appointments booked at the start (subject to change/results etc) - before I felt it was a scary drip-feed of info and booking each appointment at the last one and only being told verbally about dosages etc.
Small thing - nurses do the scans and blood tests in the same room - I hated the way at Create you had to wait after your scan in the corridor for a bloodtest!
Cons (these are quite general to anywhere I think):
Occasionally is quite busy / bit of a wait
With extra tests etc it is expensive, I think all told for me it will probably be around £15,000 but there are so many variables it's hard to say
More of the costs were needed up front than I expected, perhaps only by a couple of weeks but that's been quite difficult
You don’t see your Doctor much (I think this is true everywhere) but up until this point that hasn’t been necessary and I know he’s the one making calls on dosages after bloodtests etc, also as I said I have very easy access to his secretary.
The main reason I went with CRGH at this point is because I felt that if it didn't work I would come away with better data and information for a possible final attempt. The main issue I think I have (from endo) is poor egg quality - ARGC said (basically) don't test embryos and do a fresh transfer because testing and freezing may damage them further (I think statistically this isn’t so major and freezing allows time for other medications etc for endo which can be positive, so this is very much a matter of opinion/weighing things up). CRGH said lets try and get lots of embryos, freeze and test them to see if they could successfully transfer instead of transferring embryos that will never work, so same problem, 2 completely different ways of looking at it. As I said I felt like CRGH just seemed a bit more rational, but I’m clearly not a Doctor and it’s still stressful wondering if that was the right decision.
I did paid consultations with both having already sent all my medical records from my previous attempts (this can take a while if you don't have them already) because it seemed like the only way to get a sense of their approaches. I like the idea of ARGC and throwing everything at it but I couldn’t quite come up with a reason to go with them over CRGH, so my rational head won out. If by some miracle we could afford to do it again if necessary I would be open to trying ARGC, I found them really communicative when we were talking to both.
I might be repeating myself a bit here (!) but that’s were I’m up to. Have you explored Access Fertility? I didn’t go down that route as I don’t think what they could offer would benefit me but it definitely could be good for some cases and you can go to CRGH through them.
I always write such long replies! Hope this helps.