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Got my period after TTC

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Whippet79 · 25/06/2022 21:37

After losing our desperately wanted baby girl in January following a TFMR I took the time to heal and this month we decided to TTC again.

its been a tricky decision as we have our wedding in October but being 42 time is not on my side and I decided I would rather be pregnant on my wedding day than wait and miss out entirely. Anyway I got my head together and all was okay but then my period was two days late and a bunch of other symptoms made me feel like maybe I could be pregnant this month. I knew it was very unlikely with my age but it was the same symptoms as before and so hard to not think it could be a possibility.

However, today as I was out I realised my period was coming on and I was so upset. I felt so frustrated with myself for thinking that it would be anything more but it just made me realise how much I wanted it. We are very lucky to have our beautiful little girl who turns 4 this year but I just sometimes feel so lonely with the pain of what I’ve been through/going through that I need to vent! Thank you for listening and any advice would be much appreciated xx

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twinkleto · 25/06/2022 21:54

Sending you love. I've been there in slightly different circumstances (TTC first time round and then second time round and then after a miscarriage) and getting your period is just the worst. Fingers crossed for you that you can have the news you want very soon.

Whippet79 · 25/06/2022 22:02

@twinkleto I’m so sorry to hear you’ve had a rough time of it too. Sending lots of love x

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Minamina · 30/06/2022 21:53

So sorry to hear you're also going through this. sending much love and best wishes
xx

Essexgalttc · 30/06/2022 21:59

I’m so sorry for your loss.
I lost twins at 9 weeks pregnant (probably not as far along as you were as you knew gender) at the beginning of April and got married a fortnight later.
This is my first month ttc since the loss and I’ve come on my period too. Your feelings are completely valid and understandable. It is so hard feeling like the future is unknown, will we conceive again? Will be lose again? And having your period does not help them feelings. I hate it when people tell me I’ll be fine or just be positive, as it’s not that easy is it? But in a way they are right in what they are saying. Just have to hope that next month is the month 💗
sending you baby dusts and lots of hugs ❤️

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