Confused - Is there a chance I'm pregnant?

[MissBeeBee]

Apologises for spelling errors. On my phone and just rambling!

Okay, so I'm new to this forum, been reading lots of posts but decided to post myself and ask for some advise. I'm not good with the terms so bear with me.

2 years ago I terminated an accidental pregnancy. Me and my partner had broken up and when we found out we were not in a place where having a child was viable (living, finances, jobs etc) it was a hard choice, but I know the right one for me.

Cut to now, we are together brought our first home and have jobs we are super happy with. My period ended 8th May and we had sex 11th. We arent actively trying but have said if it happens so be it. Im not tracking my ovulation etc but according to Flo I wasnt in my ovulation phase.

I highly doubt I'm pregnant because of the dates etc. But I keep having a niggling feeling. Had "symtoms" which mirror period, ovulation or pregnancy according to Google so I'm baffled.

I'm not sure what I'm really asking as I know nobody will know the answer. I just have no idea what to look for etc. Or maybe I'm just secretly hoping I am? A part of me is scared I won't conceive because of the previous termination (I read horror stories on Google at the time I was considering my options).

I'm not due AF until 4th June.

Have you had sex since? It is unlikely you would be pregnant from having sex on the 11th, unless you ovulated very early. rotunda.ie/ovulation-calculator/

Do you want a baby? Does your partner?

Also don't google about previous termination/ getting pregnant. It is very safe. My first miscarriage was removed by d&c which I think is the same/ v similar process to abortion. I became pregnant again within 6 months. Natural MC. Then pregnant again within 6 weeks, now 31 weeks pregnant. So from having my d&c I got pregnant twice within 12 months.

Thank you for that link.

We do want kids, we are planning on actively trying from later this year as we have a lot of plans coming up that being pregnant for might make it tougher to do

We haven't had unprotected sex again. But we did have sex using a diaphragm and spermicide. However based on that ovulation link. I didn't have sex during my 'ferile window'.

Thank you also for the advise 🙏 Google is the worst but I can't help myself sometimes. I'm an overthinker!