Really thought this was going to be the month 😪

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So we’ve been ttc #2 for 9 cycles now.. I really felt positive for this cycle, I don’t know why but I just felt different. This cycle we’ve tried preseed, dtd every other day and then 6 days straight during fertile window (and then have continued to do it every other day ‘just in case’). I’ve got my partner to start taking a multivitamin every day and I just feel like I’ve convinced myself all of this would work for some reason.

Anyway, it’s 8dpo, and I know that’s still really early, but I’ve just had a bfn this morning so naturally assuming this cycle will end up going like all of the others and I’ll get AF in 6 days time.

I’m getting so frustrated as to why it’s not happening. My son took 10 cycles so I did expect it to take a while, but then we had a CP in cycle 2 and I remember not being overly sad because it proved I could get pregnant and it could happen quickly.. Anyway, 6 months later and nothing, not even a shadow of a line on any test.

Sorry ladies, I just wanted to vent my feelings, hope some of you can relate 😩😩😩

You're only 8DPO! The earliest I ever got even a tiny glimmer of a positive was 9. And that was so so slight.
Please don't despair. It's not your first. Your body can do this. Have faith in your body and test daily for the next few days if you can.

@Alonelonelylonersbadidea Thank you!

I just don’t have any positivity after 9 long and disappointing months unfortunately 😩

With my son I waited and tested when I was two days late, I was so strict on myself and I never tested early. I just know when I had my chemical I was around 8/9dpo when I got a faint positive.. So now when I don’t I naturally get a bit disheartened 😩

I will test again in the morning and see how I get on. I have absolutely zero symptoms though so my hopes aren’t high at all! x

Always sworn I’d update any threads I started because it’s a pet hate of mine coming across old threads during my late night googling sessions with no update at the end.

So for anybody reading this in the future, 10th cycle and I have my BFP!! I’m still incredibly anxious and probably will be for the next 9 months but here we go! I got my positive on a digital today and the lines seem to be progressing nicely 🥰❤️

Best of luck to anybody ttc! xxx

Just came across this I'm so pleased for you .. all the hard work paid off best of luck x

Congratulations!! And thanks for the update, I remember reading this thread last month. I'm on attempt 9 myself now so I like hearing about these successes xx