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Not sure if my gf got pregnant. Help me!!

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Elhombre · 07/04/2022 08:52

Hello yo everyone here wishing you a blessed day. I’m really sorry if I am not using this website the right way. I’m just a bit worried and needed some help. Well to get on point. I had sex with my lovely girlfriend. I did ejaculate (not inside) but after a couple of hours we had sec again (unprotected). I did not shower or go to the bathroom or anything. Can anyone help me by telling if there are any chances ? Tbh this is not the right time for us and we don’t want to bring a baby under these conditions now.

Thank you.

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Hdocheub820 · 07/04/2022 08:58

If you had unprotected sex then yes, she could be pregnant.

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Elhombre · 07/04/2022 09:00

We do this all the time. Never had issues. Just this time we finished and did it again after a couple of hours

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Moody123 · 07/04/2022 09:02

I don't believe sperm can survive outside the body, so if your worried about it from the previous ejaculation then I don't think that is possible
How ever you have had sex, so even protected, their is always a risk
You will need to speak to your girlfriend about her cycles to see how likely this is
Also if your using pulling out as a method you do need to look into 'pre cum'

Duracellbunnywannabe · 07/04/2022 09:02

If you are having unprotected sex then yes at some point she is very likely to become pregnant. You need to start using contraception if you don’t want children yet.

Hdocheub820 · 07/04/2022 09:04

Maybe you've just been lucky that she hasn't been ovulating when you have done it previously. I'm a bit confused by what you mean, but if you had sex unprotected then there is a chance.

AlisonDonut · 07/04/2022 09:09

If the time is not right for you, then ensure your sperm doesn't penetrate someone else's egg and take some precautions. There are plenty of options for this.

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Elhombre · 07/04/2022 09:10

We are really close about everything. I know her cycle is about every 15 of the month. When this happened she was still on her period. She had a little blood left, like 2 days before she end. Yes I do use the pull out method. What worries me is there was still sperm from the first time on me and it happened that way.

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bigred22 · 07/04/2022 09:20

If you're that worried about pregnancy the very obvious answer is use proper protection, the pull out method isn't contraception.

AlisonDonut · 07/04/2022 09:23

Your sperm is your responsibility.

Grow up and go do some research on contraception.

Thewheelsfalloffthebus · 07/04/2022 09:26

How long ago did this happen? She could consider taking the morning after pill if it was within the last couple of days. You don’t get a say in that though.
Months are not the same length, and women’s cycles vary in length too so saying that she starts her period around the 15th of each month is not a good method of tracking.
You need to buy some condoms and use them. If she is in agreement about not wanting a baby at the moment then there are several different contraceptive options she may wish to look into.
Using both a hormonal method (like the pill or the implant) and a barrier method (like condoms) will hugely reduce the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.
The pull out method is not good enough if you don’t want a child at this time.
Did you not cover this stuff in school OP?

MajesticallyAwkward · 07/04/2022 09:28

Any unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. If you don't want a baby use protection, the pull out method isn't very effective- around 78%, which means roughly 1 in 5 women using the method will get pregnant.

AlisonDonut · 07/04/2022 09:29

@Thewheelsfalloffthebus

How long ago did this happen? She could consider taking the morning after pill if it was within the last couple of days. You don’t get a say in that though. Months are not the same length, and women’s cycles vary in length too so saying that she starts her period around the 15th of each month is not a good method of tracking. You need to buy some condoms and use them. If she is in agreement about not wanting a baby at the moment then there are several different contraceptive options she may wish to look into. Using both a hormonal method (like the pill or the implant) and a barrier method (like condoms) will hugely reduce the risk of an unplanned pregnancy. The pull out method is not good enough if you don’t want a child at this time. Did you not cover this stuff in school OP?
Makes me think he has only known her since February. The one with 28 days.

Hmmm...

GoT1904 · 07/04/2022 09:30

@Elhombre it's unlikely that she's pregnant because she will have been early in her cycle if still bleeding.

It's also unlikely because you didn't ejaculate inside her, however you are right to be worried about sperm from your previous ejaculation.

It's unlikely, but not impossible.

If you take anything away from this scare, I really would look into contraception. Can your gf take the pill or other types of BC? If not then condoms. Nobody is a massive fan of condoms, but they're used for a reason!

Take care. I think this time you'll be okay.

AlisonDonut · 07/04/2022 11:25

Men really, really need to take control of their sperm and where it ends up.

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