HELP HOW DO I TELL HIM I WANT ANOTHER BABY

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i really really want to have another baby, i have a son of 8months and would really like to start trying for another baby, only prob is he wont talk about it, im only 19 and we werent planning to have elwyn but he s here, now i really want another. if i talk about it he just says yes great lets have another one but i think it needs to be discussed cos loads of people wud think oh look just just another teenage mum etc me and kris (my husband to be) need to discuss it but how to i sit him down to do it. He is a wonderful partner and an excellent father he s 23 so he s young too. id be 20 by the time we wud have another but wud u say it is still too young?? i know this is prob really confusing but that is how i feel CONFUSED of what i want. we both working parents we have our own business, brand new car and having a house built etc so we not the average young parents at all, financially we doing more than ok and our relationship between our selves and our son doesnt suffer everything feels right but why am i in 2 minds?? some one please help.

Well, for what it's worth, I don't think it depends so much on your ages, but more on your life set up....can you afford another child right now, etc....all those boring questions.
Also, at 8 month, most, not all, children are still relatively easy, if they are the placid kind....but that doesn't mean anything....
I had a large agegap between 1 and 2, not all planned, but it was lovely....it was a agegap of 6 1/2 years...and afer finding motherhood quite challenging with my first ds, it was all so easy the 2. time round...so, we decided on #3 and I fell pg when ms was only 13 month old...so, he was 21 month when ys was born, and tbh, I have some regretts about this...I did not cope well at all, however, maybe with different children, or being a different kind of mother I would have coped better...I don't know...but I found it incredibel hard, and by the time the younger 2 came along I was in my 30ties...