My DH has very mixed feelings around whether we have children which resulted in some very upsetting conversations but ultimately led to my coming off contraception in December and a "we'll just see what happens sort of agreement". We haven't discussed it since. Well, I'm now a few days overdue and starting to convince myself that it's possible I'm pregnant (also aware AF could drop in at any time) and I don't know whether to tell him, if the time comes, that I need to do a test or whether to just do one in private and then tell him if it's positive. I really wish it was something I'd asked him if he would want to know during a time when I had my period - so he knew I wasn't actually pregnant at that time if you see what I mean, but it's possibly too late for that now.
I think most of his reluctance stems from fear so what I don't want is for me to tell him that I might be pregnant and then having him overly stressing. Would it be better just to keep it to myself until I possibly one day get a BFP? Would love some advice from people who have been in similar situations.