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🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

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Skl2021 · 02/03/2022 16:20

Flying through these threads ladies 🌈🤞 let's get some more rainbows 💞 xx

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ArcEnCiel2022 · 04/03/2022 10:00

@Lottie2267 I don't tell my partner either when I'm ovulating. He actually doesn't even know I'm tracking my ovulation! I just do it because I like to know, but I don't want him to feel pressured. We just dtd regularly, about 3 times per week when we feel like it. I've been pregnant really quickly two times doing like that (two miscarriages unfortunately), and I hope this month it will work as well 🤞 I'm expecting to ovulate this weekend, or Monday at last.

ArcEnCiel2022 · 04/03/2022 10:01

@HoneyLemon29 Great tests!!!

Lottie2267 · 04/03/2022 10:09

@arianasky argh I know, so expensive and so mentally draining! Let’s hope we don’t have too much more of these months!

@ArcEnCiel2022 thank you. Yeah, the more I think about it the more it makes sense not to tell him. Sorry to hear about your losses 😔 I really hope this will be your month!!

ArcEnCiel2022 · 04/03/2022 10:22

@Lottie2267 Thank you! I hope it will come soon for you as well!!

arianasky · 04/03/2022 10:23

@Lottie2267 it definitely is 😞 I hope for both of us this our month? 🌈🙏🏻

Skl2021 · 04/03/2022 11:08

@aesgriff fantastic news I'm over the moon for you 🌈✨💕 xx

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bunnykins123 · 04/03/2022 11:08

@aesgriff that's amazing news! I had a good feeling 💕

bunnykins123 · 04/03/2022 11:08

Did anyone have any symptoms in 2WW around 7dpo? Bummed myself out that I have absolutely no symptoms what so ever 😖

Bundaberg84 · 04/03/2022 11:09

@bunnykins123 the two times I got a BFP I had no symptoms really. A bit of cramping here and there, but nothing that would have raised any suspicion :)

Cruz86 · 04/03/2022 11:15

@bunnykins123 the only thing that made me wonder was my terrible indigestion after eating. That was it. I still don't really feel it now 😂 I wouldn't take no symptoms as a sign of anything. When do you think you'll test?

Can we just have a reminder about where everyone is in their cycle? I don't want to miss any TWW!

Bridgey8 · 04/03/2022 11:17

How are you doing @Skl2021? Xxx

Lottie2267 · 04/03/2022 11:26

@bunnykins123 I think I did have some symptoms when I was pregnant, they were the same both times but I could also have been imagining them! Try not to worry, everybody is different. I know a lot of people don’t have any symptoms at all at this stage so don’t give up xxx

HoneyLemon29 · 04/03/2022 11:28

@bunnykins123 I have no symptoms at all, I feel exactly the same x

HoneyLemon29 · 04/03/2022 11:28

@bunnykins123 maybe a bit more tired, I'm sleeping a lot more x

Skl2021 · 04/03/2022 11:35

@HoneyLemon29 your tests look lovely such strong lines for 10 dpo! I got a shadow at 11dpo on a frer! X

@Bridgey8 I'm having a major wobble last few days. Yesterday sickness hit me like a ton of bricks and I just slept and couldn't keep my head up I was a mess couldn't even look after the kids felt so emotional and guilty also had heartburn 🤦 I never ever get that. The closer I'm getting to 9/10 weeks the panic that something is going to go wrong is ramping up. X

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ArcEnCiel2022 · 04/03/2022 11:43

@bunnykins123 I didn't have any symptoms at all before my two BFP! I thought I had a lot of "symptoms" last month from 6dpo and it was a BFN 😂 I think it really doesn't mean anything that early!

Bridgey8 · 04/03/2022 11:47

@Skl2021 totally understand... it's a difficult time for you and hopefully once you're past this milestone you can relax a tiny bit. We just need to keep reminding ourselves that these are different pregnancies. Sending a hug xxx

Skl2021 · 04/03/2022 11:50

@Bridgey8 it's so up and down and I hate how my head is making me think about all this when I'm trying to be happy. My symptoms arnt as bad today and now obviously I'm thinking something must be wrong 🤦 yes I just want these next few weeks to fly by now the constant stress and anxiety is too much! Wish we had a little window into our tummy 🤣🙊 x

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bunnykins123 · 04/03/2022 12:01

@HoneyLemon29 thank you for letting me know - I keep poking my boobs hoping for them to feel tender but absolutely nothing 😞

@Lottie2267 that's the thing, in my past 2/3 chemicals I defo had sore boobies. I also get them when not ttc so to not have them just feels really poop 👎

@Cruz86 I don't know, I have to test at 12dpo regardless as I'm on Cyclogest but I'm not feeling very hopeful this month so may just wait till then. I think I had some heartburn last month come to think of it! But I also had some cramping which was another positive indicator.

@ArcEnCiel2022 weird isn't it that even on bfn cycles you can have so many symptoms!! I just want some symptoms to give me at least the teeniest bit of hope!

aesgriff · 04/03/2022 12:31

@speake thank you so much for thinking of me ♥️♥️ I can’t believe it! An actual heartbeat.. woweeeee!! How are you feeling? No follow up, the nurses words were ‘we won’t be able to see you here again’ and I felt there was an underlying message of ‘now stop harassing us’ but hey 🤣 I’ll complete my booking form. The consultant said I should be doing the progesterone vaginally?! I said I was doing rectally and he said I should swap. Have you heard this before? Xx

@Cruz86 omg I know right!!!! Thank you so much ♥️♥️ How are you feeling? Right boobs starting to be tender now.. we’re making progress xx

@arianasky thank you so much♥️♥️ It was the craziest dream and I truly believe he visited me. It was super special. How are you getting on with DTD? Yeehaw 🤠 xx

@Lottie2267 thank you so much!! Xx

@ArcEnCiel2022 thank you so much!!! Xx

@HoneyLemon29 wow look at that line progression. 🤩 I also got a progesterone result of I think it was 20.1 from MediChecks xx

@Ganesh2022 can you believe it 😱😱 just one baby! I’m still feeling so over the moon. Although imposter syndrome still creeping in. Yesterday at work I do not know how no one called me out on being an internal mess. How are you? Xx

@Bridgey8 eeeee 🌈 cmon baby please stick around and keep growing!! What a week for both of us xx

@Sassy144 thank you!! Honestly it was a crazy dream and I sooo believe that he visited me. It may be a crazy pregnancy dream but it brought so much comfort xx

@Skl2021 we’re still going.. surviving and thriving ♥️♥️ Sorry to read that you’ve been feeling anxious. It’s so hard with a constant swing of emotions isn’t it. I found it really helps taking each day as it came and thinking how much I enjoyed being pregnant xx

@bunnykins123 thank you sooooo much!! Xx

Right ladies I am up to date and thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support. I’m blown away and love this thread so much.

Tissues put away, Pom poms back out.. cheerleaders unite 📣 cmon BFP and TWW girlies!! Xxx

HoneyLemon29 · 04/03/2022 12:46

Thank you @Skl2021 I understand the anxiety completely. I'm desperate to know where this baby is :(

@bunnykins123 I feel nothing with my boobs, occasionally have to support them if I'm coming down the stairs in a rush 🤣 but apart from that there's nothing x

speake · 04/03/2022 12:49

@aesgriff that’s great that they have no reason to see you again 🙏🏼🤞🏼 So the first time I took it I got told to take it vaginally but honestly it was physically impossible for me between work & looking after a toddler as I felt it just leaked out when I stood up unless I lay down for a couple of hours after! So second time round I told the consultant my concerns & she said to take it rectally as there’s no difference in terms of absorption but it wouldn’t leak out. I think it depends who you talk to, nhs consultant told me vaginally, private one said rectally but not sure either makes much difference.

If you do take it vaginally make sure you have liners as it’s messy xxx

mrshodgy21 · 04/03/2022 12:55

@Cruz86 do you use cyclogest all the time? X

HoneyLemon29 · 04/03/2022 12:58

Thank you @aesgriff now the long journey starts to find out if I am one of the 15% with reoccurring Ectopic 😰😰 anxiety is through the roof x

peachiekeen · 04/03/2022 12:58

@aesgriff I'm so so so happy for you! I've been thinking of you all day. What amazing news ❤️

@HoneyLemon29 look at those lines 👀 all of the lovely news today!