🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

[Skl2021]

Flying through these threads ladies 🌈🤞 let's get some more rainbows 💞 xx

@aesgriff enjoy Wales, we went last month and loved it

My midwife just rung to book my booking appointment 🙄 honestly it annoys me so much! My GP and EPU know I miscarried and they told me they'd let her know! I've got the worse luck same thing happening with a scan them ringing me to see where I am when I cancelled it a week before because of MC 🤬

@arianasky I'm sorry this has happened to you again there's just no need. 😩 Xx

Ah you’re literally a week in front of me! I’m 4+6 but that’s going from the first day of the chemical bleed? So not sure if anything will change in terms of dates! My boobs feel really full again too but nothing else really I want everything so I feel like it’s real 😀 @Cruz86
I will 100% be booking an early scan if I get past the 7 week mark where we had our first MC just for a bit of reassurance!

Oh for god sake @arianasky!! That is sooo frustrating 😞

Ah exciting @Prayingformyrainbow93! Yes I don't blame you about the early scan. If everything is okay at mine next week, I'll book a private one in between that and the 12 week scan. It's just that little bit of reassurance isn't it.

Xx

@Skl2021 @Cruz86 I know it's so frustrating! Makes me not want to tell them if I'm pregnant again 🙄 I'm ok though it didn't upset me I just find it so annoying when they can take two seconds to check you know?

@arianasky yes I know there busy but just think of the heartache it saves. Glad your ok 🙌💕 x

@Skl2021 exactly and I always worry they'll do it to someone who's really upset and this will hurt them more ( not that I'm not upset but you know what I mean )

Thank you @Skl2021
It is af. Feel ok but wish I hadn’t taken the frer tests. I did two in the end and they both showed the same v faint line, but they are indent lines for sure as have faded more now.

@Cruz86 thank you, it is af unfortunately but I could still be in the running for a dec baby in this next cycle. I’m being Positive! 🍀

@arianasky oh no, you think it would only take a minute to check something like that out. It could really cause upset x

Hey girls sorry I’m just about to take the dog to the vets (🤦🏻‍♀️) so just clicked through the last two (!!!) pages but I would agree for a separate thread if we can for early pregnancy? It is heart wrenching when you are still so desperate for the BFP and if anyone wants to join us who are still TTC then it’s their choice xx sorry I would do it but I have absolutely no idea how to xx

I've joined the gym, operation "get fit and get pregnant" begins today! Probably won't tell the induction person my aim is to get pregnant after miscarriage, I'll probably say something like "do more cardio" or "be stronger" but we all know what I'm doing there!

I've set up a thread called navigating pregnancy after loss and tagged who I can remember - sorry if I've missed you!!

@arianasky and @mrsmw132 I've left it up to you as to whether you join today, I feel very hopeful for you both but didn't want to tag you in something if you wasn't comfortable being in there yet.

@Tofu35 well done on joining the gym! I haven't exercised in sooo long so I take my hat off to you for getting started.

@Cruz86 and all the other pregnant ladies, it's very kind of you to think of those of us who might find it hard to be around pregnancy chat at the moment. I wish you all the happiest and healthiest of pregnancies and hopefully we'll be joining you in the new thread soon too. I'll definitely dip in now and then to see how you all are 💛🌈

@Cruz86 I will leave joining until get a BFP but I will be popping in to see how everything is going for you all ❤️

Ahh I'll be sad to see you all go but I'll definitely try and keep up with how you all are every now and then and fingers crossed I can join you sooner rather than later if I ever blinking ovulate! 🤪

Don't worry, I'll definitely still be posting in here and cheering you all on!! I couldn't leave this thread fully 😂

@Cruz86

Don't worry, I'll definitely still be posting in here and cheering you all on!! I couldn't leave this thread fully 😂

Ditto!! The cheerleaders will never stop cheering 📣 ♥️

Were right behind you girls getting them bfps 🙌✨💕🎉 xx

@Sassy144 was it your counselling today? I hope it went Ok x

Just to let you all know, looks like my vvvv faint line was an evap. I tested again this evening and it was negative. I was getting a bit nervous thinking I was about to have another chemical so I think this is the best outcome! I couldn't handle another chemical!

@Cruz86 that is so thoughtful of you. I'll wait and see what happens next.
Still cramping today which is weird.
Will test again tomorrow at 14dpo.
Hopefully af will stay away. Still TTC for now?! But I can entirely understand.
I have found this chat very comforting and hopeful. And thankfully an outlet for my over testing 😂

I completely agree with what you were all saying about better comms between the EPU, GP and midwife's. I had to cancel my scans and found the whole process distressing.

Noooo @bunnykins123!! Are you testing again in the morning? X

@bunnykins123 sorry you got a negative 😩 you could clearly see your line. Frer seem to be getting alot of indents and evaps lately 😣 not fair getting people's hopes up xx

@peachiekeen I’m in the same position as you, my body isn’t ovulating, no idea when AF will come, so frustrating waiting. I’m doing easy at home tests am and pm hoping it will happen, it went up then down and going slightly up but still considered low on the Premom app 🤦‍♀️

@peachiekeen yes it was today, I'm really glad I went. It helped to speak about it properly with someone 💛 one thing she recommended was that I have an appointment with my GP as I went through the whole thing at home and never had a follow-up or anything, and she thinks it will help me process and move forward - but I feel like my GP won't want to know?