🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 6 🌈✨🙌💞

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Flying through these threads ladies 🌈🤞 let's get some more rainbows 💞 xx

@HoneyLemon29 I'm 6 weeks tomorrow had a scan last week yolk sac seen got another scan on the 11th March
Just can't get excited we don't even talk about being pregnant which is sad x

@mrshodgy21 I have my fingers crossed for you. No neither do we, I can't get excited yet and don't think I ever will until baby is safely in my arms. The next week or so is going to be tough 😮‍💨

Pregnant ladies on the thread
Do you ever remember being very very early on and sneezing and getting sharp pulling pains in the pelvic area? Doesn't last long but every pain I get and every right side pain I get I'm going into meltdown. Keep getting dull niggling feelings to the right of pelvis 🥴 x

Thank you all I had a low this morning on easy@home so panic over I'll definitely stick to just clearblue next month 😂 my own fault for using digi and sticks 🙄 deffo think I am 2dpo today though

@mrsmw132 I can see it 🎉

@mrshodgy21 I was 30 when I got pregnant missed miscarriage at 31 and 2 cp's and a MMC at 31 also

@HoneyLemon29 yes I get this all the time or if I move or stretch too quickly. It's horrible! X

@Cruz86 I'm worrying because I'm not even 4 weeks yet so it's in my head now it's another Ectopic 😰

Yes I have had that weird feeling too, feels like whatever is growing is detached when you breathe in too much or sneeze/cough! But I think that’s just us picking up on every sight twinge/symptom! @HoneyLemon29
I am 28, had a MC at 7 weeks before new year, got pregnant straight away but that ended in a chemical at 5+3, now holding off testing again - I’m 13dpo I think! Scared of anything happening again so I can understand why you feel like that too @mrshodgy21 I’ve seen a lot of the ladies here reassuring each other in that this is a new pregnancy and I think having that positive mindset will help xx

Yes I can imagine after an ectopic things like that feel even more worrying @HoneyLemon29 😞 if it is any reassurance, I've had this with every pregnancy (1 child, 1 mmc and now) and it always started as soon as I got my bfp around 4 weeks xx

Good luck @Prayingformyrainbow93! When is af due? X

Ah Thankyou @Cruz86 I’m not entirely sure when AF is due because before my pregnancies I never really tracked my cycles, although I do think they were pretty regular! My Ovia app says AF is due today? That’s from inputting my peak ovulation with clear blue which was 2 weeks ago? I’m too scared to test! Where abouts are you at the moment? Sorry there’s too much to keep up on this group! Xx

Ooh it could definitely be testing time now @Prayingformyrainbow93! Are there any signs of af? I'm about 5 weeks now xx

Tested today at 12DPO and it's BFN for me. It's day 32 of this cycle, so I may just be in for a long one!

Ah congratulations! Will you be going for early scans? I definitely could test now I’m just worried to get a positive and it end in a chemical like last time so I’ve kinda talked myself out of testing all month! I’ve got sore boobs and am getting odd cramps but obviously could be AF or pregnancy related so I’m not really sure! Xx

Hi everyone...looking for sone advice, was convinced I was out- had a peak opk day 16 of my cycle then tested day 17 and opk was negative (or so I thought)
Looked back at the picture I took and somehow I had been looking at it upside down🙈 the right way round it was an even stronger peak than day 16...
Tested again day 19 and it had went negative but there still quite a strong line...didn't test again after that.
Now I'm mega confused about when I've ovulated 😂😂 also had a negative frer yesterday, thought I was definitely out but could be potentially only 10 dpo just now🤔
No sign of AF apart from very light pink spotting after dtd last night.
Any insights would be great, so confused!

Where does everyone stand on drinking in the tww? Previously I haven't but it's so depressing acting like you're pregnant when you aren't (or might not be). We've decided on a spontaneous night away tonight and I'm 2dpo and wondering whether a few drinks will do any harm?

[quote HoneyLemon29]@mrsmw132 I see the shadow 💜[/quote]
I'm coming to my senses and realising it must just have been a shadow. I'll test again tomorrow- but too unlikely that it will have worked so soon x

@Sassy144 I’ve just decided personally to not drink now I’m also dieting so it helps me 🤣🤣 I just don’t want anything to risk it for me

Sorry to hear about your bfn @Tofu35. There's still time for things to turn around!

Thank you @Prayingformyrainbow93 ☺️ yes I've got a really early scan on Monday at epu because I've had some spotting, although thats stopped now. Ah of course, I completely get that. Every month I'd wish I just had the patience to wait! Please keep us updated over the next few days 🤞🏻

Oh no @Sparklesurprise29 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 to be honest you could've ovulated on day 17/18/19 so hard to say! If af still hasn't arrived yet it's a good sign 🤞🏻

I normally abstained from drinking @Sassy144 but this TWW I drank a couple of times and ended up conceiving! I say enjoy yourself - it may help your body to relax!

@mrsmw132 my tests started off like yours and I'm 5w now, really hope it progresses for you 🤞🏻

@Sassy144 I did drink the first time I miscarried then didn’t drink the second time I miscarried so for me I don’t think it made any difference! I probs won’t drink in the tww going forward unless I have something on that I can’t avoid. I know plenty of people who have had drinks in the tww and even later when they didn’t even realise they were pregnant and they were all fine so don’t worry. Enjoy and hopefully it will help your body relax a little too xx

@mrshodgy21 I’m 28 & 2 complete miscarriages so far at 8 and 10 weeks. I definitely don’t agree with them putting it down to age without further investigating. Hope you get your rainbow this year 🙏🏼🤞🏼 Xxx

@Sassy144 the first 2 times I drank during TWW last two I didn't and I miscarried each time soo? I think it is fine especially as you're only 2dpo today but of course it's what you feel is best

@HoneyLemon29 I get these pains too (I think it was you that said about them). Also get it when I pick up my daughter and rest her on my hip, can totally understand why you’re worried but I think they’re quite normal. Keeping everything crossed for your checks next week xxx

@speake they have said could possibly be my age but then they say that I'm not that old it's be convincing myself my eggs are ruined as I have healthy children. X

Thank you @speake

I've rang the EPAU again because my anxiety is getting too much. They've taken my details down. I knew exactly who I was speaking to just by their voice and they remember me I've been in there so much with the last 2 losses. They're going to call me back as I was speaking to the trainee and they need to pass my details to someone else 😮‍💨😮‍💨
Hopefully they'll ring back with a plan so I know exactly what's going to happen and when.
She said "we can only monitor you with blood tests for now" but that I'm okay with. Only 20% of ectopics have HCG doubling every 2 days the rest are abnormal normal numbers. My HCG with my Ectopic was abnormal numbers so at least it can give me a tiny bit of reassurance until they scan at 5 weeks x

@mrshodgy21 I’ve had just the one mc, and praying that’s it, but when I asked them if they thought my age played a part in it they said that obviously the risk can go up when you’re older (I’m 38) but that they saw plenty of ppl older than me conceive etc. I think it’s very easy for docs to put things down to age and not do proper testing :(

@HoneyLemon29

Thank you *@speake* I've rang the EPAU again because my anxiety is getting too much. They've taken my details down. I knew exactly who I was speaking to just by their voice and they remember me I've been in there so much with the last 2 losses. They're going to call me back as I was speaking to the trainee and they need to pass my details to someone else 😮‍💨😮‍💨 Hopefully they'll ring back with a plan so I know exactly what's going to happen and when. She said "we can only monitor you with blood tests for now" but that I'm okay with. Only 20% of ectopics have HCG doubling every 2 days the rest are abnormal normal numbers. My HCG with my Ectopic was abnormal numbers so at least it can give me a tiny bit of reassurance until they scan at 5 weeks x

I'm glad you phoned EPU. Hopefully they will help calm the anxiety. I'm so hopeful for you. I'm 35 and had 1, but that was more than enough trauma for a lifetime