Strangest cycle since I started ttc…early BFP and now AF :(

[Waitingforourrainbow]

Posted last week after getting a BFP around day 13/14 of my cycle. After a week of driving myself crazy analyzing every little twinge and feeling, I started spotting on Friday and AF arrived with a bang this morning (what would have been day 23 of my cycle)

I’ve spent the morning feeling sorry for myself but I’ve got my head straightened and I’m back on the ttc rollercoaster!
Mostly I was upset because it hurt so much to tell my husband…he tries to stay so positive but he is definitely feeling disappointed this time!

I had some fertility tests completed in January, so I’m turning my focus to following up on my next appointment and start getting to the bottom of what is going on in my body!!

Hopefully any other ladies in a similar position are doing ok xx

I'm sorry op

I'm expecting AF to arrive, after a bit of brownish discharge earlier. I'm 14dpo but no idea how long my cycle is as its been irregular and non existent for most of last year. We were seeing a (nhs) fertility consultant but left the UK a few months before covid. She gave me a supplement, that since I've stopped taking, everything is getting back to normal. Just waiting now to see if I get a proper BFP or AF.

@LottyD32 my NHS clinic were looking into my progesterone levels so I had to get bloods repeated…I’m hoping it’s something like this as at least they can prescribe something for me to try…if not we’re looking at unexplained infertility which is unthinkable right now! And if one more person says “but at least you know you can get pregnant”, I’ll scream

I’m keeping everything crossed for you x

Thank you. We never got a proper answer as to what the problem is, but we have to have private cover where we are now so if this isn't a pregnancy or doesn't stick I'm going to ask for proper investigations, but I'm not sure if fertility is covered as its not essential 🙄

It’s absolutely crazy what couples have to go through before getting the answers and help they need to start their families.
I hope you get some answers soon, fertility issues leave you feeling very alone, but it has helped me to realize that there are lots of lovely supportive people out there who have had similar experiences…and lots of the stories I’ve seen have given me some hope