Valentines, pancakes, BFPs etc thread 2

[DancinOnTheCeiling]

Just made a new thread as the other one was filling up...

@CatLady1994 and @MrsSamRowley congratulations 🥳 wishing you both happy and healthy pregnancies.

@ElleBelleLou I can see something but you are right it's very far over. Fingers crossed it's a BFP for you. Let us know how you get on!

@DancinOnTheCeiling hope your scan went well xx

@CatLady1994 amazing! Congratulations!

@DancinOnTheCeiling thankyou. Hope all went OK with your scan, been keeping everything crossed for you.
My symptoms seem to come and go too, one day I have really sore heavy boobs then the next they seem almost normal. Some nausea the week I found out but nothing since and the cramping seems to have pretty much stopped also. I'm also super anxious, I think its normal? X

Augh got a faint line on Easy@Home test and it looked like it had a bit of colour to it when I inverted it (easier to tell cyan from grey than pink for me) so I took a FRER but BFN sigh Feeling pretty stupid right now :(

10 DPO, used an internet cheapie with FMU and I can't see anything. Think yesterdays line was an indent 😔

@ElleBelleLou I could just have line eyes but there looks like there's a super faint line on there, or could it be an indent? 10dpo is still super early!

@ElleBelleLou There’s a line on there :)

I see a line @ElleBelleLou! Did you manage to get hold of a FRER?

Can you all really see something? I felt like I could see a shadow of something but I think for 10DPO it should be a lot clearer! I have an FRER but I'm scared to do it and get a very clear BFN

@ElleBelleLou I see a line there too! Do a FRER!

@ElleBelleLou Waiting won’t change the outcome. You’ve had two obvious lines on two different tests. If you’re pregnant a FRER will show it. Just take it ;)

Super vivid dream last night where I got two BFPs 😖 my brains being mean to me now! Remember the feeling of elation and my entire thought process during the dream as well! I'll give it a few more days and if no AF then I'll do another test. Just when I start to accept I'm out as well

@CatLady1994 congratulations 🥳🥳, very strong lines. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

@ElleBelleLou I too see a shadow of a line. 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you for the FRER.

@TheBirdintheCave sorry about BFN, I really hope it turns into a BFP the next few days 🤞🏻🤞🏻.

Thanks to everyone who has been thinking about me. My update is really crap unfortunately. They couldn’t see anything on the scan and suspect I’m having a molar pregnancy which is very rare (1 in 1000). They took bloods yesterday and my HCG is very high which together with nothing on the scan is bad news. They’re repeating bloods tomorrow and doing a scan again later in the week. Molars can apparently become cancerous but it’s very rare (they are usually benign) but either way I’ve read that after it you’re not allowed to try again for 6 months or even a year, so it’s totally shit. I’m so devastated and struggling to process it all 😢😢. If it was a ‘normal’ miscarriage at least we’d be able to try again soon.. thanks for the support ladies and sending lots of luck and baby dust to everyone xxx

@kizzy97 hope your dream is a premonition 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx

@DancinOnTheCeiling I’m so sorry to hear that :(

@DancinOnTheCeiling I'm so sorry to hear this, I hope that it turns out okay for you and ends up not being one, thinking of you and know we are all here to chat whenever you need xxx

@DancinOnTheCeiling - I'm so sorry. That's awful, sending lots of love xxx

@DancinOnTheCeiling I am so sorry to hear your news. Following MC number 2 they called me to say the suspected the tissue was molar tissue. I was not expecting that and it was a really tough few weeks getting my head around. But as you say the thought of having to wait so long to try again was the hardest. For me it turned out not to be a molar but the time I was in contact with charring cross I learnt so much. I recommend looking on their website as it has a lot of information. I think I would of been a partial molar as there was a foetal pole if it had have been confirmed. There is also a really good Facebook support group I would recommend joining. Aww chick I'm so sorry xxx

got home, did another IC on a literal 20 minute hold - can anyone see anything?

@ElleBelleLou I don’t know what else to say... You keep getting faint positives but won’t believe it and won’t take a FRER shrugs. As someone who keeps getting negatives it’s a bit upsetting to be honest :(

@TheBirdintheCave sorry - I'm not intending to upset anyone, I'm only 10DPO and wanting to save the one FRER I have for FMU tomorrow morning. I think I'm scared to lose the hope by getting a BFN - these cheap ones I have according to reviews are bad for indents, but I promise I bought an FRER to do first thing tomorrow when it'll be 96% accurate based on my cycle. I'm sorry if I have upset anyone

@ElleBelleLou I got a positive with a FRER at 9/10 days. It's not that early if you're pregnant it most likely will show. I would stop tormenting yourself and just do it but the internet cheapies are pretty conclusive I do see a line

@Diamondbabe I'm going to hold for a few hours and use my FRER this evening - I wish I'd gotten two to do FMU tomorrow morning too but I'd rather just know!

@DancinontheCeling I'm still keeping up with this thread even though I'm on the March one and really sorry to read your news, your head must be all over the place!!! Deffo look into support groups and really hope it's not what they think!!! Everything crossed for you and sending virtual hugs x

I'm torn on whether to do another test tomorrow morning, if this cycle is a 33 dayer like last month I should be due on tomorrow, but I have no sign of af coming. Apart from sore boobs, I'm just scared of seeing another BFN