Hello everyone,
I am in my early 30’s and gave birth to my first LO in March 2021. It took us a while to become pregnant, so much so that we’re now considering another one. After breastfeeding for as long as I could, my periods restarted on my 7th month post delivery. I had one ‘normal’ cycle of length and flow - to which I thought "this is amazing, everything seems to returned back to normal". I spoke
too soon and since that one "normal period", I have gone from 32 day cycles (give or take +1/-1 each side) to 42/43 day cycles.
I’ve been tracking ovulation with the Clearblue advanced fertility monitor and it never shows me any peaks just highs (last month for example I had 14days of highs and it then told me to stop testing.- It would have been far too early for me to have ovulated at this point based on a 42d cycle).
I’ve had both slippery and EWCM daily (! Yes daily !), quantity -variable. I’m worried that I’m not just ovulating. Very frustrating trying to work out when and if I’m having any ‘fertile’ days. The monitor for me so far is proving to not be useful as it won't allow any further testing in the month if you have so many highs.
TTC is becoming stressful yet again. I was scanned for PCOS prior to my first pregnancy and this was negative. Sounds like my hormones are all over the place. GREAT. (grrr!). I would have thought they would have settled down by now, seeing as next month I'll be a year post delivery.
Apologies for the essay.
Any advice ?
Getting very low about it.