@Tandabear
Hi *@ExpatLivingLondon* thanks for your message. I’m an REALLY struggling with getting on day to day too. I have a scan booked at the EPU on Saturday when I’ll be nearly 7 weeks. I’ve never felt less pregnant. Not even tired. I want to be tired and sick!
How are you getting on? Are you going to have an early scan?
Have you had any cramping on the cyclogest? I’ve had some very localised cramping and also dull aching. My friend who works in fertility said that’s more like changes caused by hormones, but who knows
@Tandabear Darling, I know the feeling. I wake up every day hoping and praying for vomit and nausea.
I'm just at 7 weeks and will have a viability scan soon. Since I started taking the drugs (Blood thinners, Lubion, Estrogen pills and Cyclogest) before the transfer I have some idea of their side effects while not pregnant. I feel a lot of brain fog.
Examples:
- I leave my phone in a random cabinet
- If someone sends me an email that requires an ounce of critical thinking it feels overwhelming
- when I open up a work file I'll find a bunch of mistakes I made the day before, things like that
I know we all occasionally have these experiences in the best of times, but for me, it's now amplified and 24/7. I'm usually a go-getter and love chopping through to-do lists and projects. Now it feels like that fire has been taken away from me and I'm more lethargic. It's not unbearable, but it's not great feeling like a shell of yourself. Also, lethargic + anxious is a sh*t combo.
In terms of more typical pregnancy symptoms, the only thing that's perhaps a bit more noticeable is I need to sleep more. I honestly can't tell if that's because I'm pregnant or have developed some form of depression on these drugs. Otherwise, I normally live for spice and have found myself less interested in firey food. Once again, can't tell if it's legit or if I've just convinced myself I don't want spice so I think I'm pregnant.
In terms of cramping, hardly any at all. I remember three days after the transfer I felt a tiny little cramp, but that was like, three seconds long, while I was power walking, could have been anything.
I absolutely hate this waiting game, it's so tedious. Please know my thoughts are with you, you're absolutely not alone, and I'm hoping you have nothing but a positive outcome. ☺️