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Why am i not pregnant?!

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emma1103 · 16/01/2022 18:06

Totally irrational post, but just wanted to vent. Ive been pregnant 3 times, but only have my daughter. She was my 1st pregnancy, and it was perfect. My 2nd pregnancy was a chemical, i started bleeding 5 hours after my positive pregnancy test. My 3rd (the month after my chemical), sadly ended at 30 weeks when my son was stillborn. Its all very raw, as it only happened in November. All 3 pregnancies I've fallen pregnant straight away. So here i am, i had my first period since losing my son last month, then started trying for a baby. Sex every day, i definitely didnt miss ovulation. Yet my period started, on cycle day 26. Im devastated. I was sure i was going to get pregnant again.

Give my some hope! I know most people will think its too soon, i need time to process what happened. But i truly dont think i will ever be over it, or ready. I feel dead on the inside and the only things keeping me going is the thought of trying again (and my daughter).

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Wisemensay · 16/01/2022 20:34

I'm so sorry for your losses @emma1103 your body has been through a huge amount very, very recently. It may need time to heal however much mentally you might need to get pregnant again ASAP.

TheDaydreamBelievers · 17/01/2022 14:47

The honest answer to why am I not pregnant is that even with perfect health and perfectly timed sex your chance of conceiving on a cycle is only about 1 in 4.

Your body will not have fully healed from being pregnant yet, which may reduce your chances per cycle.

But mainly, the other two times you got very lucky to conceive on month 1. So it's just chance that this time it hasn't happened month 1.

Very sorry for your losses and wishing you all the best x

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