Hi,
I would really appreciate not being judged because I am already beating myself up over this. I had a period around May 12, 2021. On May 17, I had sex with a guy. I did take a plan B, but I took it 72 hours after which of course alters it’s effectiveness.
On 5/27, I experienced light cramping and bleeding. I went to the doctor on 5/28 thinking I was miscarrying and the plan B may not have worked. Or maybe I was already pregnant? I didn’t know what was going on. The bleeding had a gray large clot that looked odd to me. I took a physician administered pregnancy test, and it was negative. I am not sure if I just happened to test early. (I am carrying twins which could have affected my hcg levels and made it easier to detect but again, I can not guarantee this.)
We broke up, never had sex again, and I ended up having sex with someone else throughout the week of June 2-June 15. (This guy did know that I had sex with someone else, I was not hiding this.)
Weeks later at the end of June, I got really sick and couldn’t keep anything down. I go to the doctor on 7/4, and I’m pregnant. When I went in for my first ultrasound on 7/8, apparently it was too early to spot heartbeats, the sacs appeared to be empty, and babies measured at 6w3d, due date 2/28. This was a vaginal ultrasound so it was pretty early.
Using a conception calculator, I immediately thought it was the second guy as he said he could recall when he possibly slipped up, and it matched up with the dates the conception calculator listed. I also put in the calculator that my last period was on either 5/27-5/28, and the calculator gave me the same due dates doctors have given me. So I thought it was a match. Maybe the bleeding I experienced on 5/28 was a period due to the plan B messing up my cycle. I have been going off of guy #2 being the father until recently. I am starting to feel nervous that the dates are not reliable. I don’t want to lie to guy #2 but also don’t want to cause alarm for no reason. He and his family are very excited. The babies due date changed at my 8 week ultrasound and was put to 3/2. All of my scans have been consistent with the dates of 2/26-3/2. I realize taking a paternity test when the babies are here is the only way to 100% prove things, but why would my ultrasound consistently be so off, especially since I got it so early in my pregnancy? I had sex with these guys a few weeks apart, but I am still very scared. sad Any advice is appreciated. I’ve been having anxiety attacks and stressing so much because I feel so horrible. I have zero communication with the first guy and do not really want him involved. Thanks in advance.