Doesn't Want To Try

[UnreasonableAndIKnowIt]

I knew my DH was further behind me in terms of bring ready to TTC #3 but I just found out he's "years" away from being ready. I was so crushed but was trying not to look too sad as I know logically that he's done nothing wrong. How can I get over this? I don't want to try for another child in a few years. Even though we're fairly young I have never wanted to be an older mum at all. Help me get over myself/get perspective.

Still feeling low today and trying to pretend that I'm not

How old are you?
And how old are your other 2 dcs?

Yes I think more context is needed here about your ages and ages of dc. Also who works in the house? Who brings in the money and who does childcare etc?

We're early 30s, other children are early primary years. He works, I care for the children (both disabled). Financially stable and happily married but significant pressures on life from caring responsibilities. Thing is, I know he's right but my longing is illogical.