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Faint positive tests (I think!)

9 replies

Catbuddy · 03/12/2021 19:28

Hi everyone! My first post here.

My husband and I have been TTC for a couple of months.

I had a little boy born sleeping in June when I was 33 weeks pregnant (my first child). We sadly had to have a TFMR as he'd had a stroke that completely destroyed his brain 😔. He was a much wanted baby. We found out about fluid on his brain at 27 weeks and spent the time researching and having lots of further tests done, during which his brain sadly kept deteriorating at each appointment 💙. We were eventually told he'd never walk, talk, feed independently and would continue having strokes and seizures once born, one of which would eventually sadly take his life. He was the most beautiful little baby when he was born, and although we miss him immensely, I'm glad he's not in pain.

It was determined there was no reason for the stroke and sadly just 'one of those things'. So we decided to start TTC because we so desperately want a living baby here. I took two tests this morning (my cycles are a bit whacky since giving birth, but I think I'm due on Monday/Tuesday).

I did the Sainsbury's test first and thought I saw a faint line, so did an frer where I also thought I saw a line. My husband can see them too, but I'm terrified we're getting our hopes up for nothing. After losing our little boy, I think we're just desperate and I'm scared we're clutching at straws.

I've tried to get the best pictures I can, can anyone else see them?

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Catbuddy · 03/12/2021 19:31

Sorry, can't figure how to add pictures 🤦🏼‍♀️

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CasaBonita · 03/12/2021 19:31

Can't see the pics but I have my fingers crossed it's a positive!

IAmSickOfWaiting · 03/12/2021 21:22

Oh gosh. Reading this was absolutely heartbreaking. I am so so sorry for what you’ve been through and for your little boy. I hope you get what you deserve very soon ❤️

Under the “comment” box towards the bottom, there’s a circle with a paper clip in it. That’s how you add a photo!

Aubyone · 03/12/2021 21:31

I think it takes a little while to be allowed to post pics if you are new to Mumsnet (24hrs).

Just wanted to say I am so sorry to hear about your first child, what a horribly difficult experience that must have been for you. I am sure you have had a tremendously hard year. I have everything crossed for you that these faint positives are the start of a new journey, one which brings a brother or sister to your sleeping angel. Take care and best wishes xxx

lionsmum · 05/12/2021 16:21

@Catbuddy hi OP, just wondering how you are doing & if you managed to figure out re your test? I'm so hoping it is positive for you🤞🏼 I am so so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious boy. We lost our son at 6 days old a couple of years ago so I really sadly feel your pain and despair of wanting a living child. Sending you so much love on this difficult journey. I hope you have the support around you that you need💙

Catbuddy · 05/12/2021 17:34

@lionsmum
Hi thank you so much! I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your little one 💔
For some reason I still cannot add photos 🤦🏼‍♀️ but a clear blue digital this morning confirmed the pregnancy 💙 I'm praying this little one comes home with us.

@Aubyone @IAmSickOfWaiting thank you so much for your lovely comments 💙 xx

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Fingermoose · 05/12/2021 17:43

Congratulations Catbuddy - what lovely news after a terrible time Flowers

Sweetpea84 · 05/12/2021 18:06

I’m sorry for your loss. Congratulations I pray all goes well for you.

lionsmum · 05/12/2021 19:10

@Catbuddy ohh gentle congratulations, wishing you a very uneventful 9 months!❤️ thank you, if there's anything at all you need or just someone to speak to about PAL I'm happy to help. It's a tough time but you'll get there, sending so much love x

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