Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Idk anymore.. just needed to vent

4 replies

beautifulinitstime · 18/11/2021 10:46

Thought i just needed a space to vent since this is another heartbreaking cycle. Period came on time... been trying ever since i miscarried early of this year, and that was my first pregnancy too after about a year trying. I found it is so hard to deal with pregnancy announcement around me while me here whom trying hard each month, but none leading to bfp atm. Activating my long deactivated social media isnt really a good move and regretting it a little. Always telling myself to take it easy, just following the flow of this life....but ended up in silence heartbreak everytime period is visiting. 💔 not even sure if it's gonna happen for me, again. Perhaps i didnt talk enough to God. I dont know what to do anymore... and not expecting anything through this confession too. Just needed to vent like really.. prayers for all those who are in this battle@journey trying to conceive too. You all are really strong women.

OP posts:
Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 14:42

@beautifulinitstime Hi, sorry to hear about your MC. I hear you! We've also been trying for more than a year, cycles are like clockwork, so never thought I'd have an issue. Had a BFN this morning, and slowly losing hope all together. I'm taking a break from TTC next month as it's all a bit much for me now. This is a great place to vent, which is why I joined too, as needed a sounding board. Have you had any help from doctors yet? I'm still waiting for my gynaecology referral.

Fern346 · 24/11/2021 21:38

Hey ladies, just wanted to join in this vent. Took me 14 cycles to get pregnant then had a MMC at 13 weeks 😞 that was in April this year. I’ve had no luck since starting TTC again in August (took me months to get negative test after the MMC).
I guess we just have to stay hopeful, as hard as that sounds but I feel so down about it all the time and feel like I can’t start enjoying life until I’m pregnant - it’s all I think about. I’m also 34 so worried time is not on my side…

Hope you’re both doing ok, but know you’re not alone with your feelings of sadness and desperation, I wouldn’t wish this in my worst enemy xx

Creatorofthepostinotes · 25/11/2021 10:44

Can I join too? Had a MC in Dec 2020 and now feel that all I have done in 2021 is TTC unsuccessfully. My life just feels like it is lived in monthly blocks: no future, no plans just TTC.

I am sorry for all of your heartbreaks - I think TTC can be such a sad and lonely journey. I hope you have someone IRL to support you xx

chasingtherainbow1 · 25/11/2021 10:52

I'd like to join too. It's my due date today after my first miscarriage so having a bit of a wobble.

Had 2 miscarriages this year whilst ttc the first. We got pregnant first time with both but have been trying for about 4 months now and nothing. Currently having tests for nk cells so awaiting the results of that.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page