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tryingforbabyh · 02/11/2021 21:21

Hi all,
This is going to sound so odd but here we go. I am in month 13 TTC baby 1 and up till now not even a sniff of a BFP. Had some basic tests and nothing obviously wrong though. My cycles are 26-28 days with ovulation day 14-16 (from using OPKs). This month I have this overwhelming feeling that this is going to be the BFP month even though I've done nothing different. Im taking a combination of vitamins that I've been taking for a while (B6 being the newest and this is month 2 of that) and we generally DTD regularly. This month we DTD on day 5,6,10,11,12,14 (day 14 was my peak OPK) & will do 16 and 18. There is no reason that this month will be any different to the previous 12 failed attempts but it just feels different. I know positivity is good but I'm worried that I am going to be absolutely distraught when/if my period and I think I'll find that hard to cope with! I guess I'm just wondering has anyone ever had that positive feeling and been right and got your BFP and if you were wrong the tips and tricks for dealing with that crushing disappointment! TIA x

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MamaKitz · 02/11/2021 22:04

@tryingforbabyh

Hi all, This is going to sound so odd but here we go. I am in month 13 TTC baby 1 and up till now not even a sniff of a BFP. Had some basic tests and nothing obviously wrong though. My cycles are 26-28 days with ovulation day 14-16 (from using OPKs). This month I have this overwhelming feeling that this is going to be the BFP month even though I've done nothing different. Im taking a combination of vitamins that I've been taking for a while (B6 being the newest and this is month 2 of that) and we generally DTD regularly. This month we DTD on day 5,6,10,11,12,14 (day 14 was my peak OPK) & will do 16 and 18. There is no reason that this month will be any different to the previous 12 failed attempts but it just feels different. I know positivity is good but I'm worried that I am going to be absolutely distraught when/if my period and I think I'll find that hard to cope with! I guess I'm just wondering has anyone ever had that positive feeling and been right and got your BFP and if you were wrong the tips and tricks for dealing with that crushing disappointment! TIA x
Just wanted to say good luck and hopefully it's women's intuition knowing your own body and this will be your month! I'm 3dpo so on the TWW! What day are you on now? Sending baby dust!
tryingforbabyh · 02/11/2021 22:45

Thank you!!! I really don't think it will be - I can't see how it will happen after a year lol but my god I would be sooooo happy if it was! I am literally 1DPO so a long two weeks ahead!

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