i totally know whatypu mean, we have been(in my mind) activly ttc for 3.5 years but nothing, so when i decided to go to the GP there was no support from him at all, we had a crisis point when it came to his turn to do a sample and it would have coused a massive rift in our relationship due to his refusal to play his part. I had to illustrate quite graphicaly just what it meant to me. I dont understand there refusal to admit there may be a medical problem, he just wants to carry on trying with out any 'meddling'. Im 33 how long does he think we can blindly continue? How much do they want to buey there heads in the sand?? I have attended every hospital appointment alone so far, which is probably better than to try and drag him with me, but it doesnt help support wise. Juat for the record, i love him to death, and he says he would be the happiest man alive if we do fall pg but why no support with the ttc part?????