am i sad?????

[bambam30]

we have just started this month ttc and i have gone from being well not really bothered t completely obsessed i come on here and lurk 4-5 times a day keep grabbing dh for bd am on day 15 and have already got butterflies we getting married on xmas eve and i should be thinking about that what is wrong with me also my dss has just told us his mom is pregnant and i actualy felt quite put out i have got a lovely ds 2 and a lot to look forward to so why do i feel so desperate when it is only just the begiining??

Hi bambam - i was just like you describe when we decided to ttc no.2 - I was very lucky in that I got pg the first month but the two weeks between ovulation and getting a bfp were complete madness - it became completely all-consuming even though I knew I was being utterly irrational. I think it is very common as wanting to have a baby is such a strong instinct. The ttc boards are brilliant for getting you through the 2ww with people just as mad like-minded as you so don't deny yourself and GOOD LUCK !!

what skidaddle said about instinct!

Good luck, and don't lurk, let us know how you are getting on!!

thanx skidaddle i just can't beleive how stongly i feel when last month i really really was not bothered whether we ttc or not and i feel really bad about feeling put out about dss mom being pregnant and dh really not helping by telling me not to worry 'cos it will work 1st time cos i got supersperm' i feel like i am setting myself up for a big fall!

thankyou all so much i thought i was just being over the top!!!! i guess you just don't realise how strong the instinct within you is. i on day 16 tomorroww and then have to go in to waiting mode if i like this now god help me [and all of you! ]then.

bambam, come and join us on the ttc#2 thread, there are loads of us trying not to be obsessive and not doing very well at it! I have only had i AF since DS was born and am counting the days till I can reasonably expect the next, or pee on a stick! Good luck with the waiting - always the worst

so anyway am on day 19 and i feel really really sick! now i know i got a lot on but do think [whispers] i could be???

day 19 of cycle or 19 days after ovulation?

Symptom-spotting is the riason detre (excuse the spelling and whatever ) of the conception threads!!!

g'day to you all i have woken up this am covered head to toe in a rash so me thinks i feel sick due to a viral infection still i will keep fingers crossed!!!