Having a third child cannot decide

[Cheviot37]

Hi I was after some advice
I really cannot decide whether to have a third child. I have 2 children already, 6yrs and 9yrs. I have been feeling broody as some of my friends have very young children. So I decided to have unprotected sex and try for a baby but then the next day I panicked thinking what have I done. I will lose all my freedom.
Part me would love more children, but I hated pregnancy and labour and I found the newborn stage hard. But now my kids are older I love it which is why I’m hankering after another one. I’m 37 so cracking on a bit. So I do need to decide. I have also started a new job so not ideal but when is and financially all is ok.
My husband is easy either way so really it’s my decision.
But why am I panicking so much I change my mind on a daily basis is it normal to be this undecided??
I wondered if anyone had similar experiences? And how they came to a decision?

Thanks everyone you have given me a lot of food for thought x

No regrets having a third OP.

Obviously everyone's circumstances are different but, for me, I wouldn't be without him. He had a few health problems and was therefore the hardest work of my 3. I have to admit to a few "what have I done?" moments in the first few weeks. But he's now healthy and happy and our family wouldn't be our family without him in it.

Circumstances generally weren't ideal at the time and did become considerably worse, so it was a heart over head decision for me, but I think more often than not you regret the things you didn't do more than those you did.

All the best, whatever you decide.

@cheviot37 Absolutely no regret having my 3rd baby. She brings us so much love and joy, couldn't imagine life without her. She was very wanted and I never had any doubts, I really wanted a third baby so the decision was easy to make. The first 2 months were tough, but then it got so much easier and I dont feel like I've lost my freedom. In fact, I found it easier the third time around, as the dynamics are so different. The other kids are older and can help out. They all play together while I cooking or doing chores around the house. If you can afford it financially, go for it. Good luck!