Convinced I’m going to have at least one more MC

[Nicolelinda96]

Hi guys. I had an MC at 5.5 weeks last month and we are trying again. I’m just so so triggered by so many people on here having several losses before they have a baby. Obviously everyone has a different experience and nothing is guaranteed, but because of this, I have so little hope for my next pregnancy. Miscarriages are common, particularly early ones, I know this but it doesn’t make it any easier. I know another loss wouldn’t necessarily indicate a problem, but it’s more that I’m afraid of what it would do to me mentally. I mean I have friends whose first and only positive test equalled a baby, some who have had multiple kids and no losses so obviously it is possible, but i feel like I can’t get my hopes up because I feel like I am destined to have another loss before a baby.

Anyone got a positive stories about having no losses or one loss then a successful pregnancy?

I had just the one miscarriage and then a successful pregnancy straight afterwards. The reason you read about so many recurring miscarriages is because these are the women who come into MN seeking support from others going through similar, to help them get through it.

The only time I post about my miscarriage is in support of others (like this) not for myself. I posted about my successful pregnancies and my children, because that is what my
life is. My miscarriage was truly awful at the time, but now it is such a tiny part of my history that I rarely even think about it.