Conceiving after ectopic pregnancy Removal of one fallopian tube age 31

[Sumsandlou1419]

Hello,

So this has been bothering me since my emergency operation in july 2021.

I am 31, and have a girl (almost 9) and a boy (2years in 2 weeks) i am no longer with the father, however we have a good relationship now....

I have a new partner... i say new, we've been together over a year and have been friends for years. Earlier this year i fell pregnant, twice in one go(at the same time), one interine and one ectopic (i am a twin) unfortunately neither baby would have survived and at 10 weeks gestural i had emergency surgery to remove ectopic and right fallopian tube, interine baby did not survive either...i was aware of this and prepared for it....so i thought.
I coped well with the loss of babies as i knew this was the case and as horrendous as it sounds, i had not planned anymore children nor did i think at the time i was even ready for another child and i asked the universe to make a choice for me. I could never abort a baby....no offence but i couldn't...nature chose its course as i asked it too, and i have been left torturing my self thinking because i never really wanted the baby i was blessed with, the world has shown me the pain i deserve.

I am also 31 with one fallopian tube, my partner is younger than me and has no children, he is brilliant with mine and i now know i want to give him a child of his own as much as i want to have one more.

Does anyone know the probability, of conception after one tube has been removed and at my age??

I would be devastated if i cannot have one more child.

Failing getting pregant again 😔 what support groups are out there?

Thank you 😊 xxx

Hi I had an ectopic some years back and had 1 tube removed after ruptured. We were told we still had a good chance of conceiving of my other tube was healthy but may take longer. After 2 years we went back to say ot still hasn't happened and they sent me for tests and unfortianlty my other tube was showing blockage and scar tissue and I opted to have that removed too and went into ivf. I have known a few women who have gone on naturally to conceive again. If your actively trying and it doesn't happen go to your gp and ask for some tests to check your other tube. They think my other tube was damaged due to the rupture I had and scar tissue grew on my other tube so I was warned there was a possibility it could block my other tube but if your other tube looks OK then there is no reason you can't go on to have a natural pregnancy. Good luck.

I had an ectopic pregnancy before I had my 2 DDs, and lost a tube. I was 34 at time. No problems conceiving after. Took us about a year after to get pregnant with our eldest, then first month of trying with our youngest!