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90mamabear · 28/08/2021 17:46

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻Daffodil

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Mama500 · 18/10/2021 21:40

@Hope18 working from home! :)

Oh no, still hope for you. I have to admit I don’t track my CM much. We have been not preventing not trying since March and activity trying since June! I know how you feel it’s just a waiting game all the time xx

Ladylou17 · 19/10/2021 05:12

@MrsMo21 @ShellUK09 I feel exactly the same way it's exhausting 😂😂😂😂
Sorry to hear bfn @Mama500 but still early days. @Hope18 im sure you're doing everything you can. My OH was saying to stop the OPK and just dtd every other day after AF if this month is a no... I'm not sure it sounds like hard work 😂😂
I did a FRER this morning it has a v faint line. I'm honestly not convinced at this point. I had my peak on the 7/10 so probably ovulated on the 8/9 so I'm either 11/10 dpo so still quite early isn't it xx

Mama500 · 19/10/2021 06:03

@Ladylou17 have you got a pic? X

Ladylou17 · 19/10/2021 07:23

@Mama500 it was so dark this morning it's hard to see. Feeling disheartened now to be honest. We'll see xx

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Mama500 · 19/10/2021 14:47

@Ladylou17 I think I can see it xx

Hope18 · 19/10/2021 15:33

@Ladylou17 ahh it's frustrating isn't it.. Like I defo know I shouldn't test early because the faint lines are so hard to determin! Same as @mama500 I feel I can see something slightly.. But definitely difficult to spot..
I really hope you get a darker line soon!

I did another test too this morning 🤣🙈 BFN I think.. Although potential of an indent. But again. AF due between Wednesday and Saturday.. But who knows! I'll attach a pic. Excuse the state of the bathroom. 🤣 And the second pic where it's on the window sill is after the time frame.

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Ladylou17 · 19/10/2021 15:42

Thanks @Mama500 @Hope18 I know it's so hard not too. I definitely can see something on the second pic. Here is up to the light. I have binned it so I can't keep looking at it 😂😂😂 xx

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Mama500 · 19/10/2021 16:17

@Hope18 I can see something second pic and @Ladylou17 I can also see something!

Hope18 · 19/10/2021 16:41

Awww @Ladylou17 I can see something there too!

@Mama500
I think with mine because the second picture was out of time frame it won't be correct.. But had accidentally left on the side 🙈 x

Mama500 · 19/10/2021 16:55

Fingers crossed for your both!! Exciting!

Mama500 · 19/10/2021 19:27

Another BFN for me. Getting very depressing now (cycle 5)

Hope18 · 19/10/2021 19:42

Awww @Mama500 what test have you taken? 😔❤️ I'm really sorry to hear that..
Your AF isn't due till weekend is it? Xx

Mama500 · 19/10/2021 19:46

Very very early detection. 10hcg. I’m definitely out this month. It took me over a year for my last pregnancy too.

How are you have you tested more? X

ShellUK09 · 19/10/2021 20:02

@Mama500 so sorry about your bfn.

We are having a break from DTD tonight, we are both shattered! x

Mama500 · 19/10/2021 20:03

@ShellUK09 thank you :(

Haha, it’s a chore isn’t it! X

MrsMo21 · 19/10/2021 21:40

@Mama500 I’ll most likely be out this month too..with my issues I’ll be the last one standing on this thread don’t worry! Will be here to keep you company next cycle too!

Although one thing I learned from @90mamabear was that you’re not out until AF shows! X

90mamabear · 19/10/2021 21:51

@MrsMo21 awhhhh thank you! Honestly remember you helping me with my absolute meltdown! Honestly my worst month with little hope felt out. I still can't believe it and still have hardly any symptoms at 6 weeks and yet with DD I had so many ! You are 100% not out xxxx

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Ladylou17 · 20/10/2021 05:35

Sorry to hear that @Mama500 big hugs. As @MrsMo21 you're not out till AF shows up xx I feel really disheartened too this month xx

Mama500 · 20/10/2021 08:14

Thanks everyone

Glad you are doing well @90mamabear have you had anymore scans?

@Ladylou17 so sorry to hear that. How is testing going? How long have you been trying

@MrsMo21 Awww, I always think that about myself as well last one standing :( how are you doing? Xx

MrsMo21 · 20/10/2021 10:20

@Mama500 it’s a hard one isn’t it, it’s taken me a while to come to terms with that I’ll always be the one left behind in these things but I’m okay with it now and have made my peace with it. Plus, it makes others feel better about their own journey because they know they’ll be pregnant before me which is an odd silver lining and makes me feel better about it 😂😂😂

Yeah I’m all good - 2 or 3dpo I dunno I can’t be bothered to keep track this month! Xx

Mama500 · 20/10/2021 10:27

@MrsMo21 that’s a good way to look at it. Some months I’m fine and think it will happen eventually and others I think will it??!!!

Ladylou17 · 20/10/2021 15:09

Hey @Mama500 no more testing AF is due Friday so will wait and see I think rather than torturing myself. It's month 2 for me but I had a mc in august so wanting so badly to have a bfp so we can have some happy things to focus on it's been a tough couple of months xx

Mama500 · 20/10/2021 15:30

@Ladylou17 so sorry to hear that. Wishing you so much luck for this month!! Xx

Ladylou17 · 20/10/2021 18:50

@Mama500 thank you lovely you too xx

Hope18 · 20/10/2021 20:13

I'm really sorry it was negative @mama500 😔 definitely all here for you.. Its heartbreaking!!
What brand of tests are they that you use?

Girls, I just don't know..
I caved a tested yesterday morning and got a squinter shadow type line thing..

So I did another one this morning. 🤔 I'll attach pics of yesterday's.
Then I'll do another post with todays.
Honestly..i don't trust tests since our evap/dodgey test last cycle that we believed so much then AF came with a vengeance!! 😭
Just going to wait it out a few days..

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