Anyone 9dpo

[90mamabear]

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻

@MrsMo21 evaps are cruel arnt they! I'm sorry you had one too! 😩😩
Onto the next cycle, nice and fresh is the way I've tried to think.
According to apps I'm in fertile window but CM isn't much yet so I'm not really sure if it's still a bit early? X

@MrsMo21 I'm doing good I think. I Havnt slept in days with horrific cramping but I can remember back from before I had the same . Thank you for asking. I'm so so sorry about ur evap. Frer caught me one month with exactly the same . We jumped for joy thinking it was a faint pos. Inwards and upwards. Next month 💪🏼💪🏼u got this. @Hope18 you too 💕. Hope you girls don't mind me still hanging out here . I just want to see how you are all getting on . You all were my rock ! X

@90mamabear I'm thinking i must have ov late as I'm still not on nor bfp so still just a waiting game. Will keep you posted if I get an update x

@Fairy45 crossing everything for you Really am ! 💕

@Fairy45 sending lots of baby dust and I really hope this is your month! ❤️❤️

@90mamabear thanks so much, I'm still here I love reading about you guys.. I just don't have alot to report yet this cycle lol.. This is all one big waiting game isn't it! Xx

@90mamabear please stick around! 💕💕

@Hope18 do you use opks or do you ov at the same time every month? My ov date seems to have moved since having my daughter xx

@MrsMo21 so we've brought OPK for November cycle.. This one we are on holiday on Saturday so I'm just kinda saying this cycle is a bit of fun 🤣
But honestly..i have no idea when I ov. I usually get lots of CM around the time and some pelvic pains but tbh, I get cramps throughout so i can never pin point an actual day, I've just been going by my app.. Which last month said my day was a Tuesday but I felt more cramps on the Thursday 🙄 then after that day CM dissappeared..
Since having covid my cycle is all over the place. Last cycle as 24 days?! Usually 28!
Whay about you xx

I use opks as I can kind of rely on my CM but my app is always out by a day or so. We just dtd three days in a row around ovulation (again Im not exactly super fertile so don’t take anything I say as guidance for ttc 😂) but I’ve heard people say amazing things about The Sperm Meets Egg Plan. Don’t think DH is up to that challenge though 😂😂😂😂😂

My cycles are between 24-26 days with ov on day 14. I have a short Luteal phase which is down to my AMH they think which makes things tricky. Haven’t managed to find a consultant yet that can sort it!

Girls one thing I have learnt and my fertility masseuse I went to told me the same - never ever ever go by the app. Go by ur cm the app is a guess based on an algorithm !! Xx

@MrsMo21
@90mamabear
So going by CM like last cycle I had loads but then as soon as I had that kind of pain on the Thursday CM pretty much stopped.. But CM lasted a good 4 days or so properly..
Like sorry tmi..
But atm today I feel like I'm getting a tiny bit but no where near compared to the amount I usually get. So Surley today wasn't my ov?
I'm going to look Into that sperm.Meets the egg, never heard of it! We're so un clued up about this.. With DD we fell so quickly so never really needed to be! Xx

@Hope18 never tmi in here :) so basically the lead up to your last day of ewcm is your fertile days . The very last day is your peak day and your day of ovulation. Basically have sex every day of ewcm and the day after the last day to cover you! Ignore the app for ovulation xx

@Hope18 apps are based on the previous months. But going by ewcm is the present month. If you have irregular periods us usually it's caused by when u ovulate. So the time period will be the same every month from u do ov to ur period is due , it's the first half of the cycle is different. Now snd again you csn have months where ur body tries to ovulate and faults then tries again so you may the odd time see two periods of ewcm. So make sure u treat it as fertile too just incase' also.. make sure u don't check immediately after sex as ewcm and sperm can look very similar xx

Hi @90mamabear I'm doing ok.... just don't feel pregnant! Have tested every day on sticks and the line doesn't massively appear to be getting darker (it's not faint - it's a clear positive but just not getting darker over time) so worried that my HCG isn't going up quickly - gahh! Xx

@Bridgey8 hey hun! What's ur due date? I'm 15th june !! I was just going to ask you - my symptoms seem to be lessening . My frer hadn't darkened massively and when I see your digi post saying 2-3 weeks I panicked as mine said 1-2 yest morning still so I was worried mine was going down. I did one with a hole and last night it's up to 2-3. With my daughter other than cramping and tired I didn't feel anything at all to 6-7 weeks . So don't worry honestly . I worried sick back then. As long as ur tests aren't getting lighter. The fact ur digi said 2-3 weeks that requires 150 of hcg which is very high so you are right on track!! Xx

@Bridgey8 join the june 22 birth club !! Xx

Thanks @90mamabear - I think I'm due 11th June right in time for our first wedding anniversary. Just hoping it sticks! I overthink everything so very easy to stress - think I need to step away from POAS!!!

@Bridgey8 I'm exactly the same ! We are due the same week that's brill! :)

@90mamabear does this look like it's getting darker to you?!

@Bridgey8 100% . If your digi is 2-3 ur spot on. Next week take another end of its 3+ weeks then u are on the perfect track because that requires 1000+ of hcg and once u get that I would stop testing x

I did a test this morning and I swear there's a shadow like the beginnings of a line so I'm going to test in 2 more days and see if there's something 🤞🤞 could just be an evap and doesn't photo well at all 😬

Good luck @Fairy45 - can't wait to hear if it develops!

@90mamabear @Bridgey8 awwww your guys chat!! ❤️❤️ Pleased all seems to be going well.. So so wish I could join in there ahha. Instead I did my first ever OPK today and negative. Lol
I'll show pic anyways.. But not very dark at all!

CM I rekon has increased slightly today I don't think DH is for DTD tonight as OPK was negative but I just feel like always better to try?!
How are you today @MrsMo21

@Fairy45 omg how exciting!!! Let us know..!! How many dpo are you xx

Here's OPK of this eve.. First ever one.

@Fairy45 omg !!!! I'm so excited to hear xx don't keep us waiting too long x

@Hope18 thank you so much huh. Hope see ur cm if it's clear and stretchy go for it !! I would highly highly Recommend tomorrow grabbing a clear blue ovulation tester. The one that tells u 4 or more fertile days. Once u get flashing smileys go for it dtd and confirm with ur cm. And then the smiley will become still on the very most fertile day so you can make sure 100% not the miss that day! They are amazing ! Within 48 hours of the still smiley u will release and egg xx