Hello everyone
I barely know where to start tackling this. My lovely DS was a surprise 14 years ago and unfortunately I had a truly rotten time with pregnancy, birth trauma and severe PNA.
I've been married to DH for five years and we were mostly on the fence about having a baby (he has no biological children). He now seems much more keen, and it's probably because time is definitely not on our side anymore.
Honestly, I'm scared. Of all the previous stuff, but also because we are out of the 'little kid' phase, I'm 38, I'm overweight and I have PCOS. I'd have to try to lose at least four stone before I'd be ok with trying. It's just a lot and I can't decide what to do.