CD38, AF 3 days late bfn. Pre AF clear white CM changed

[Gigi88]

So I’m on CD38. according to the Flo app my AF is 3 days late.

My symptoms don't seem much I'd expect sore breasts or something but over the last few days I've only really noticed feeling tired and super queezy to the point I have to stop and rest, close my eyes because I feel so sickly, as the ones I can't really explain away as just a dodgy AF month.

My Normal Pre AF CM is different, like I always get clear CM for couple days before AF and then a bit of white CM just before it starts, But this month my clear CM has lasted 4/5 days now which comes and goes in small and large amounts, then Yesterday I had ALOT of white CM. This could be just an odd cycle build up but It’s super strange to me and different enough to grab my attention.

I have taken a first response early detection test (frer) yesterday which was a bfn…. I thought I saw a 2nd shadowy line but tbh Wanting a BFP so much (also looking hard and long enough in all the angles under all the different lightings helped🙈) I always find/think I can see a ‘shadowy’ second line 🙃
I drive myself crazy at times

After nearly 2yrs (I try and not count how long anymore) im at a point where im struggling with the up and down emotional rollercoaster that is TTC. The Testing, symptom spotting, feeling hopeful and hopeless at the same time, Am I crazy? I still find myself hopeful when all the signs say this isn’t your month, my AF can arrive in full swing but if my sanitary towel isn’t full I’ll sit back and think…maaaaybe It’s implantation bleeding🤔. Is it just me anyone feel ‘crazy’ sometimes with it
Anyone want to crazy unalone with me?

Hi @Gigi88 I totally get where you are coming from. I have responded to your other thread as I am in a similar stage in my cycle to you. AF 2 days late according to my app but bfn. Let me know how you get on or if you test again. Fingers crossed x

Hey it's so tough isn't it the waiting and not knowing/constant BFN. Ive never been this late before without any real PMS symptoms. What about you how are u feeling? You too I'd love to no how u get on! Fingers and toes crossed for you hun :)

Hi @Gigi88 I don't really have any symptoms other than pms cramps and back ache. I just wish my period would start so that I can start again!

I feel that 100% hun. Do u no what dpo you are at all? I'm not sure because I don't do ov tests silly really I should start x

@Gigi88 my app says 14 dpo but I had positive opks for several days so I feel that I've ovulated late so I may be 11 or 12, which will mean that AF will show in two days. I've just bought a bbt to start temping for a few months.

11 days late still bfn at this
Point I could just cry. Xx

I’m so sorry @Gigi88 it’s just horrible, isn’t it? I’m on day 18 of af being late, one CB which looked positive, nothing on cheapie tests 😞 I just have no idea what’s going on, really feel your pain. Was so excited that this could be our month xx

I replied on the wrong post 🙈 oops lol

I thought I saw a faint line on the one step 10mlu Internet cheapie tests today but I think I'm just seeing shadows because I want it so much. They always say ur not out untill AG shows tho, hopefully this rings true for both of us fingers crossed for ur Hunni. How long u been trying so u temp or do ovulation tests at all? Xxx

I think that’s the hardest bit, when you want it so much I feel like it’s possible to line spot - and symptom spot!- for weeks… but I’ve got everything crossed for you that you get your bfp x x
We’ve not been on any contraception since 2017, fell on with our DD in aug 2018, had her 2019. So we haven’t been on anything since having her, and probably the last year have been trying/not not trying. The last few months been actively trying, but still nothing.

I didn’t do any tracking with DD, and was hoping to try be as relaxed

Sorry caught the post button!
I was hoping bring relaxed would help us, the stress of tracking I thought might interfere with things, but now tempted to do more. My cycle has been completely weird and thought we were expecting, af hasn’t arrived yet, I’ll be 3 weeks late on Monday, still not sign and bfn.

How long have you been ttc? Xxxx

Oh the symptom spotting, I drive myself mad with it lol
We've been trying about 2years now. We had a miscarriage last yeah at 8 weeks but haven't managed to get preg again yet. My partner has erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, he can't 'finish' via intercouse so we've been doing at home insemination, which makes the odds every month even less for us. I guess that's partly why it's hard to give up the hope when AF is late.

We don't use opks which after writing all that seems abit silly even lowers our chances even more haha oh dear, but I found the stress of tracking and trying to read understand the silly things was throwing my cycle off.

When did u last test?
U having any AF symptoms at all?
Mine are all over the place I think she's here then nip loo and nope :(
Told my OH he should take one for the team and see if some sexy time might jog things along so we can get to the next month...but he's having non of it lmao, I'm a potential ticking time bomb of an impending AF flood apparently hahaha can't blame a gal for trying tho right hahahha

Spoke to my gp he said to wait for a letter to go for a scan to check my ovaries to see why my period has stopped. I think it's too late to be expecting a bfp now surly he would have done a blood test if it was :(
Silver lining though hopefully I'll have some answers as to why my period is late and normally so painful.

How u getting on Hunni?