Hi,
New to this forum. I’ve been TTC since July 2020. Had my mirena out. Had a 35 day cycle and then 28-29 days thereafter up until last month and had a 31 day cycle. I’m currently day 32 and had some spotting and cramping today. Spotting similar to the day prior to my period but I’ve just not been this late before. I’ve had so many BFN I can’t face taking a test.
I had bloods done last week and my husband is on a waiting list for semen analysis. My bloods were normal , although they didn’t check AMH and I wondered if any other GPs did that or was it just a fertility clinic thing?
I’m pretty heartbroken even though I know people have been trying for so much longer. I’ve had 6 friends start trying after me and all get pregnant and now they’re very close to giving birth. I know feel devastated when they tell me but then also guilty for feeling that way. My husband and I are both healthy. He’s 30 and I’m 29. I’ve wanted a baby for as long as I remember and just feel desperate. I’m sad that for us now sex is becoming a chore which is leading to disappointment. We’ve tried everything. Having sex lots, trying to do it less, tried not testing LH, tried testing it, tried abstaining alcohol, supplements, everything ….
My husband is now convinced we’ll need IVF and doesn’t really want to talk about TTC but yet I obsess every month.
Just keen to hear other people’s stories.