Fed up

[Rightthen24]

I am so fed up of TTC, due to my last pregnancy not being straight forward with complications it took us awhile to decide to have another. I will have similar complications again so it's not an easy decision to try again. Our DS is 5, we had a miscarriage last Oct and we've been TTC since with no luck. It took 18 months to fall pregnant with DS so I know it may take awhile but it's so hard. Everyone around me is pregnant and I feel exhausted by it all. How do I just forgot about it and accept it might not ever happen? We are happy as a family of 3 but another would be lovely.
I need to relax, switch off.... Chill out......I wish I didn't feel like this 😭

@Rightthen24 I hear you, you're not alone although we've only been TTC again since March. Our DS is four and a half and for various reasons, we've delayed until recently. In fact, for a long time, OH was against having a second.

I think all you can do is keep on keeping on if that's want you want to do...? Try to make sure you have fun and exciting things to look forward to so that's it not quite as all consuming (I know that's easier said than done though).

I don't know what to suggest re. making your peace with the idea that it might never happen, others might have some ideas or thoughts.

It's normal to feel fed up when others announce their pregnancies - I have secretly cried a few times and this was before we were even trying for no.2. Here if you ever wanna chat.