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Feeling so low ttc

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Mummyin30s · 11/05/2021 12:42

Hi ladies, so I know there’s not much point to this post bit I’m just feeling so down atm and needed some friendly words of encouragement.

I’ve been ttc for the last 3 months with my husband and I know it’s not likely to become pregnant I’m such a short space of time trying (unless your super lucky) but o really hoped and thought maybe I would be a lucky one.

My last AF started on the 22nd of March and I didn’t ovulate after this until around the 27th of April at least i thought I did as I had the egg white discharge etc. (I don’t know what’s going on with my cycles they used to be so regular until I started ttc)

Anyway i still haven’t had a period and I’ve taken a test yesterday and today and both BFN

I sat and cried this morning. My little boy is 3 almost 4 and has been asking for a sibling for so long I feel like I’m letting him down.

To top it off my mum keeps telling me that I don’t want to leave him as a only child as she was a only child and it was so lonely etc. Which is making me feel even more guilty.

Gosh I’m sat here typing this and crying my eyes out. I don’t know what’s going on I really did think I was pregnant this time. I’ve had nausea on and off, I’ve had cramps since literally a week after I thought I ovulated. Sore boobs. Today I can’t stand the smell of the foods I usually love and I can’t eat them because I feel so sick. And still I get a massive very obvious BFN

I’ve use clear blue and first response. Nothing, still not even a glimpse of my period since mid/end March.

:( thanks for listening ladies. Hope some of you can cheer me up or give me some hope.

One Sad mumma xx

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Loops01 · 11/05/2021 14:59

I am sure we all feel you! My breaking point was month 4. Ttc #1. I'm not cycle 9 and AF is late (I think due to covid vaccine) but it's still negative. It's such a low and lonely time when you're struggling. Just got to pick yourself up and keep going. It sounds as if your cycles are still not 'normal' yet so might take your body a wee while to adjust back. Just try to put your feet up, enjoy doing it and hopefully the days will pass quicker and it'll work out in the end!

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