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A dozen eggs collected in a box, waiting to hatch, someone call the sperminator! TTC bus 40

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Minster2012 · 03/05/2021 15:52

Welcome back to the bus where anything goes, hop aboard, tell us about you & we’ll be here for you (there’s a song in there somewhere!).

This bus has a growing bunch of gorgeous black and white springy pups on board, tortoises & 2 feisty little kittens so bring your pets and pictures are obligatory 🤗.

We’ve got TTC happening in many different forms, shagging conventionally, unconventionally, with the help of scientific intervention, IUI/ICSI/Clomid/IVF & even just watching from the top of the bus 👀. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been trying for days, weeks, months or like some of us we’ve been around each other for so long we can’t bear to leave, nothing is TMI and there’s never a silly question...

Hell we KNOW TTC is tough, lots of us have had heart ache & are chasing 🌈so we are there for each other, as well as trying to have laughs along the way 🥰☺️

Oh and we like an embarrassing story to get your ticket for entry please!

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

minstermusings.co.uk for the blog that’s where the full stuff happens
& minstermusings on insta - some of our ladies have made special anonymous accounts so we can link up via me 🥰
If you want to sign up & get updates please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous I won’t be offended 😂🤣(unless you are mean)

Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
jan 7 BFPs
February 8 BFPs
March 5 BFPs
April 5 BFPs - @Minster2012, @Asthenia @2020mission
@Hopeful110 @katiekatty

So into May we go, and plenty going on...

🤞🏻💓😘🥳🙌🏻

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Haiyaa · 12/05/2021 16:27

I’m so sorry @Minster2012, I really hoped everything would be ok and you were off celebrating. How cruel that you also have to wait another week for a definite answer, sometimes that sliver of hope makes it more brutal as you suffer twice if it is bad news. Take care of yourself my lovely, I found toddler cuddles very therapeutic. Plus chocolate and all the tissues.

Haiyaa · 12/05/2021 16:32

I don’t know why that message has just posted 6 times 🤦🏻‍♀️

Dollybird89 · 12/05/2021 16:35

@Minster2012 I'm one of those that would be still clinging to the possibility it's gonna still happen. Look how much of a miracle it was in the first place... Could defy all the odds? I really don't know what to say that could help but sending you lots of hugs 🤗😟🫂

Somatronic · 12/05/2021 16:39

@Minster2012 I'm so sorry that it wasn't the news you wanted today. It's desperate that you have to wait another week to get a definitive answer, on top of that. I'm thinking of you and your DH today xxx

Dollybird89 · 12/05/2021 16:41

@Minster2012 I'm one of those that would be still clinging to the possibility it's gonna still happen. Look how much of a miracle it was in the first place... Could defy all the odds? I really don't know what to say that could help but sending you lots of hugs 🤗😟🫂

Dollybird89 · 12/05/2021 16:42

@Minster2012 I'm one of those that would be still clinging to the possibility it's gonna still happen. Look how much of a miracle it was in the first place... Could defy all the odds? I really don't know what to say that could help but sending you lots of hugs 🤗😟🫂

Katao · 12/05/2021 16:43

@Haiyaai mn seems to be really glichy. I saw Minster's post when it went up but it wooullet my post and then 40minutes later my comment went up. I've seen other threads with repetitive responses on them too

DOB78 · 12/05/2021 16:44

@Minster2012 ah shit so sorry but try and keep some hope, it does happen. This is a miracle bean so who knows what might happen

DKDK123 · 12/05/2021 17:03

Gutted for you @Minster2012 and to have things drawn out over a week for confirmation is just cruel. Take care of yourself you know we're all here for you.

After a spate of bad news from people I'm declaring this month Miserable May! Big hugs to all who need them right now x

Madeoftea · 12/05/2021 17:05

@Minster2012 I'm so sorry to hear that, I was hoping and praying for you today. Life is really shit sometimes and you don't deserve it. I hope you're doing okay, we're here to rant/cry/scream at, whatever you need.

Katao · 12/05/2021 17:12

@DKDK123 miserable may100% . So sad for our girls 😥

Franklydear · 12/05/2021 17:14

@Minster2012 darling sister, I would be clinging to the hope, but I know you can't, it's so shit, anything you need I am here

blackcurrantqueen · 12/05/2021 17:19

@Minster2012 I am truly heartbroken for you. No other words. Just love 💗 xx

InkyPaper · 12/05/2021 17:20

@Minster2012 the biggest of hugs, absolutely gutted for you, I'm so sorry ♥️♥️♥️

2alreadywantanother · 12/05/2021 17:25

Ah @minster2012 I'm heartbroken for you and your family. Wish I could give u a hug. It's so unfair.

Minster2012 · 12/05/2021 17:37

Thank you all you amazing ladies so much love MN knew you post it a million times over
🥰😘😔❤️💓💗💞

I can't say it's miserable may when we still have graduates but I know what you mean, you see I didn't send out that memo about each lady only being entitled to one miscarriage fast enough

I've cried, we've hugged kissed and talked & the dogs have had another lovely walk with us in the sunshine before a bath together (just DH & i NOT the dogs that is) before he's gone to get DS.

It's excruciating being drawn out another week & of course there's that sliver of 🌈@DOB78 & @Dollybird89
But I might lay low, try get the house up for sale & give me focus, I don't want my misery to get in the way of some good old symptom spotting & BFPs
Don't forget there could be twins 👀

@Dollybird89 you got that big wine glass ready??? I'm might still fill it with non alcoholic stuff (I've had one glass in the bath not gonna lie) but just asked DH to pick me up some non alcohol stuff to stop me downing the bottle whilst he's away tomorrow to sat

Muchos hugs

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Hopeful110 · 12/05/2021 17:43

@Minster2012 ohhhh I'm speechless... I don't know what to say 😔 I'm so sorry your still in limbo. I'm really keeping my fingers and toes crossed for a second miracle for you! Xx sending you lots of love and hugs xx

Dollybird89 · 12/05/2021 17:45

@minster2012 I've got 2 so you can deffo have one! X it's good you have something else to focus on too.. but don't let it bottle up either. We are all here for you if you need to rant ,cry scream or shout XXX we got you! 🤗😊🫂

2020mission · 12/05/2021 17:46

@Minster2012 such will power moving back to the alcohol free wine but when there's still a chance I think that's a good move. Posted on the other thread already but wanted to join here too 💕

larrythelizard · 12/05/2021 17:47

A bath with your DH sounds lovely @Minster2012, I'm somewhat relieved to discover you didn't mean the dogs.

Lay as low as you need to, we'll be here supporting you on whether you're on the thread or not x

bez91 · 12/05/2021 17:57

Oh @Minster2012 absolutely heartbroken for you all I'm so sorry. Sending hugs and all the love. Do what you need to do, we are all here ❤️

Franklydear · 12/05/2021 18:03

@Minster2012 on a practical note, do you want someone to take over the next bus, at least, we are filling this one up... It cannot be me cos I'll loose you all, and we'll also get banned with my titles, but surely we can sort it out, unless you prefer to drive

Vil10 · 12/05/2021 18:30

Oh @Minster2012 my heart is aching for you, I'm so so sorry, we're here for you!! You would never ever get in the way of symptom spotting and bfps, sending you all the love in the world❤️

Crazydoglady123 · 12/05/2021 18:51

@Minster2012 I haven't been on for a couple of days and just come on and seen your news 🥺 I'm heartbroken for what you're both going through. No one deserves this and especially not you. I really hope for some miracle that you are one of the people and that things improve. I really can't believe you're going through this. Stay strong lovely and keep your chin up as much as you can. Thinking of you loads ❤️❤️❤️

larrythelizard · 12/05/2021 18:52

Good shout @Franklydear - I don't mind moonlighting if @Minster2012 isn't up to it

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