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My first pregnancy and I need advice. PLEASE HELP ME

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JaydenB07082020 · 04/04/2021 06:25

I took two at home pregnancy test that came out positive on Wednesday March 31st and they both came out positive. I then went to the doctors office the next day on Thursday April 1st to get a confirmation I took another urine test and it came out positive. The doctor predicted that I was around 4 weeks. I had very light bleeding that then started to come on to a little bit a a flow not to much like a period though. For the past few day I have been feeling very nauseous so I was seen today on Saturday April 3rd at the ER due to the fact I couldn’t hold down fluid or solids. I told them I was pregnant and showed them my doctor confirmation they proceeded to do a blood test and they said it came back negative. They told me to test writhin 3-5 days. I have been very confused if anyone could help me out it would me a lot. What could be the reasoning for this.?

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firsttimemummy321 · 04/04/2021 07:20

Sorry you're going through this confusion. If there's enough hcg to show on a urine test it should show on a blood test. The bleeding could have been a chemical pregnancy, if this is the reason for the negative if you do another urine test it should come out negative (same as the blood test) if it's still positive I'd ask then to redo the blood test to make sure 🤞🏻 for you

Mindymomo · 04/04/2021 07:32

I had this years ago. Did home test, positive, then one from the doctors which was sent away that came back positive. Then I started bleeding and had a scan where it showed there was no baby. My DH and I were just so shocked we didn’t ask any questions. My GP rang me the next morning, to see how I was and explained that this happens occasionally. He did say that if I was pregnant there would have been pain and some blood clotting discharge, which I didn’t have, so I now think that I wasn’t pregnant at all. It still hurt though not knowing either way.

Dilemma8188 · 04/04/2021 23:46

It does sound like it could be a chemical pregnancy, it's very common, we find it about them more now that we test early. Had one last month. It sucks but doesn't mean anything about your ability to conceive and normally doesn't impact the body much, just a delayed period. Hope you're feeling OK x

eloiseislost · 05/04/2021 00:19

I'm very sorry you are going through this. It sounds like an early loss, sometimes referred to as "chemical pregnancy", as the previous poster said. This means that an egg was fertilised and started implanting in the uterus, which caused your hormone levels to rise slightly and that gave you positive urine tests. However, implantation could not continue and complete (this can be down to many reasons, most often just bad luck) and you started bleeding. Some pregnancy symptoms like nausea and vomiting can persist while your body settles and goes back to normal. You can try again next month, these things are devastating but they are very common. Most women wouldn't even know they were pregnant, they would've just thought it was their period. Wishing you comfort and strength and the best of luck for the future! 🌈 ❤️

Mrsmujic · 05/04/2021 12:46

@Dilemma8188 I believe I'm currently having chemical pregnancy as I'm bleeding after having positive tests. Do I need to go to see the doctor or do I just let it pass? It was my first postive test and so I've not experienced this before. Feel a bit lost! X

MsK89 · 05/04/2021 18:02

Hey @JaydenB07082020 have you taken a further pregnancy test? When I had a chemical in feb I had positive tests for a week, then a faint positive and the next day they turned negative.
I hope it’s not a chemical for you; they are heartbreaking xx

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