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Welcome to the endless cycle of sh*t

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babypleasenow · 08/03/2021 20:07

The cycle goes:

  1. Getting your period and breaking down
  2. Convincing yourself you aren't bothered this cycle and that you are relaxing because you can't bare the heart break again
  3. Reaching ovulation and making sure you have sex, worrying if you won't be able do it as much as you should have
  4. Trying to ignore the urge to symptom spot/trying to ignore the urge to read about your symptoms on these forums
  5. Constantly worrying you're going to get pms symptoms at any time
  6. Getting pms symptoms but SOME HOW managing to convince yourself this could be the month
  7. Saying you'll wait for af - then testing and getting a bfn
  8. STILL convincing yourself it's just too early, researching late bfp's
  9. Telling yourself it's fine, af is going to come but it's ok.
10. AF is here. Break down and repeat ♻️

It's absolutely soul destroying and draining. If anyone else can relate just know you aren't alone because this is me every single month without fail. 😞 xxx

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Dagray21 · 08/03/2021 20:13

Am just sitting here with lower backache which means period is on her way and thinking the same thing!! I'm so sick of it all!! Just fed up!! Going to the doctor this month to see if something is up.
I feel so frustrated this cycle. We dtd so much and then when it came to d day we were exhausted and nearly avoiding doing it!! Feel like yet again we have missed doing it on the most important day. I'm pumping myself full of green vegetables and vitamins and trying to do everything that I can, also trying to remain positive and I'm just SICK OF IT!!
Sorry for the rant. Thank you for literally writing what was just in my head. Hope you get good news soon.

babypleasenow · 08/03/2021 20:16

I'm sorry :( I feel your pain though. Yes, that's a good idea! Ive just had the first lot of infertility bloods done and waiting for the results. But like you, I'm sick of being positive. I also feel like no one understands around me, if you haven't felt the pain of not being able to conceive it seems like they don't care. Probably just me being sensitive but meh.

I hope you get some good news soon also ❤️

OP posts:
Allieabu · 09/03/2021 15:18

I've just had a semi breakdown, having a chemical mc now and I had a missed mc a few months back. I'm so worried and stressed that it'll never happen 😭

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