Feeling really low, please help 😭😭😭

[SunnySide1992]

Hey everyone. So im having a really bad day. Heres my story. Me and DH have been ttc for 2 1/2 years. Had a MC last october at 5 1/2 weeks. DH has had all tests come back fine and mine so far are fine. Currently waiting to have a HSG and more bloods. Im just feeling very overwhelmed. I really just thought i would get pregnant naturally and when i finally did it was taken away from me 😭😭 i know ivf would be an option but it sounds so mentally and physically draining. Also feels like all my friends are just announcing their pregnancies and i cant help but feel jealous. Any positive thoughts or similar stories with a successful bfp? Xxx

Bump

I know how you feel @SunnySide1992. It took 3 years for me to fall pregnant with my DD. We were told by our consultants that it wouldn't happen naturally (male factor) and referred for IVF. I was devastated but a week later...found out I was already pregnant.

It can happen after a long time but that said, we've not used contraception for 7 years post DD and not a hint of a line...

When you decide to TTC, it does feel like the world falls pregnant and it's worse after a loss. I'm so sorry that happened after so long TTC. It must make it much harder to deal with.

I'd definitely follow through with the investigations. As we have a DC, we are not able to have any NHS treatment BUT family members who conceived after me via IVF on NHS have multiple children because they froze embryos that were successfully transferred in subsequent treatment cycles.
Good Luck! I have everything crossed for you.