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Anyone else just cant picture having a baby

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TTCPLEASE · 24/01/2021 11:44

Bit of a long post sorry...I am trying for no 2 my DD is 9. I have only just changed my mind about more kids started in Dec. THIS IS NOT a post moaning about conception before anyone starts... i know its been seconds compared to some. And I am aware it could take years. I just mean I don't picture it.. i want it but i can't see it at all. I usually can with anything I want like when I was getting married I could picture it happening. Dont know if im making sense. But im just worried that its like a sign or subconscious thought. Example when I booked my holiday for last year (cancelled due to covid) I booked before covid was a big thing and I couldn't see myself being there even when I booked it. 🙈🙈 anyone else do this???

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Brightspark12 · 24/01/2021 17:27

@TTCPLEASE I thought it was just me who felt like this! I can’t imagine myself actually being pregnant or announcing it and that... maybe it’s our brains way of protecting us from disappointment x

TTCPLEASE · 24/01/2021 17:37

@Brightspark12 tbh i felt like this even when I was pregnant I couldn't see myself with a baby. She's 9 now lol.. but with no2 I just cant see it at all. Although I want it and imagine how exciting it would be. And I jusy think what if it doesnt? Maybe it is a defense mechanism like you say to avoid disappointment. I hope you get a BFP soon 🤞🤞 xx

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