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10dpo - symptoms but bfn

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victoria5895 · 05/01/2021 21:27

Hi, I’m hoping to get some advice on symptoms. From around 5dpo to 9dpo (today)
I’ve had these symptoms:
Nausea (To the point of dry heaving)
Dizziness
Very sore boobs
Overly sensitive nipples
Fatigue (very intense today!)
EWCM at CD18 (day after predicted OV)
Creamy CM from CD21-24 (today)

I’m now convinced that I’m pregnant
My af is due on the 11th, I’ve been testing every morning since 7dpo with internet cheapies and not even the slightest line is appearing.

My OH and I haven’t been actively trying, but would be a lovely surprise - I was so disappointed at the bfn at 8dpo that I had to tell him, he has now started online research and is so excited. It’s so disappointing so I’m hoping you could share some stories of early bfn turning to bfp

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Camzarella · 06/01/2021 17:35

@TryingForNumberOne lots and lots of baby dust my lovely xxx

Ebhc · 06/01/2021 18:49

I don't want to get my hopes up but my boobs have become really sore. It could just be AF on the way. Eek. How is everyone?

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victoria5895 · 06/01/2021 21:19

Having some awful stomach cramps this evening, think af is on its way 🙄

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victoria5895 · 06/01/2021 21:24

@Camzarella this will hopefully be our second 🤞🏻 our son is seven this year, we always had an excuse to start trying after xyz which is why we have such a huge gap 😂

Congratulations on your engagement! Hopefully you'll have your new little addition to join in wedding ❤️

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Camzarella · 06/01/2021 21:33

@victoria5895 lol aww bless. I bet your son will be thrilled to be a big brother!

Thank you for your kind wishes. Keep me posted on how things go! Xx

Merry20 · 07/01/2021 09:25

Good Morning ladies,

Hope you’re all feeling well this morning. When is everyone thinking of testing or are you waiting until AF is due?x

TryingForNumberOne · 07/01/2021 09:33

I've just taken a test and its BFN. I'm going to test again on the 11th if AF hasn't started by then. Really disappointed because I thought this might be our month, oh well I suppose we'll just have to keep trying. Baby dust to you all.

Merry20 · 07/01/2021 09:42

@TryingForNumberOne I tested this morning with an IC and got a BFN too so I’m feeling much the same. Still, not out until AF arrives so fingers crossed for you. X

Ebhc · 07/01/2021 10:18

Sorry to hear about the BFNs. I have FRERs arriving today and I think I might be tempted to test straight away... Will update how it goes. Fingers crossed for you all.

Ebhc · 07/01/2021 11:37

Completely negative FRER, not even a hint of a line. Wish I hadn't tested but I convinced myself it would be positive.

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victoria5895 · 07/01/2021 11:47

BFN this morning for me as well. Af is due on Monday, I have a box on cheap internet tests so will probably test every morning. Although now I'm sure there's something wrong with them as they are all neg so far 😂

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victoria5895 · 07/01/2021 11:47

Hope you're all feeling okay today! X

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Amijustagrump · 07/01/2021 12:02

BFN, actually so upset! Why did I take the stupid test..

Ebhc · 07/01/2021 12:14

I feel the same @Amijustagrump. I kept saying I'd wait and gave in the second I had tests in the house.

2021please · 07/01/2021 12:14

I'm getting stressed because my nausea/cm symptoms have stopped. I'm refusing to test today, will do one tomorrow. I just feel so convinced because all my symptoms are very unusal for me, plus usually by now I'd have very sore and painful boobs in the 5 days before my period but they feel fine other than having a sore nipple.

2021please · 07/01/2021 12:16

Waking up to a spam email off ASDA saying their baby event is live hasnt helped my stresses!

Ithinkhedidit · 07/01/2021 12:21

Sorry to hear about the bfns. I'm going to try to hold off til Monday now. Fingers crossed for everyone!

Merry20 · 07/01/2021 12:34

Sounds like we all need to take a little break from the POAS! Sorry to hear about BFNs. I have more tests arriving tomorrow but I’m going to hold off until after AF is due if she doesn’t arrive on Sunday. Not sure why I thought I’d get a BFP when I have had no symptoms 🤦‍♀️ xx

Camzarella · 07/01/2021 14:25

Hey all. Sorry to hear about you BFNs. I'm very tempted to test but it's my birthday tomorrow and I don't want to be on a downer if it's negative.

I'm going to try my best to hold out to Monday. Still getting cramping and constipated but could just be PMS.

Baby dust all xx

Amijustagrump · 07/01/2021 14:48

I feel like giving up now until after our wedding in May! I wont go back into contraception but I cant keep tracking and logging every symptom. Its clearly not working and is just upsetting me!

Ebhc · 07/01/2021 15:12

Feeling so nauseous now! These days are dragging in.

Amijustagrump · 07/01/2021 15:44

@Ebhc same my boobs are killing me still?? If this is how I'm going to be each month I will be very mad!

Merry20 · 07/01/2021 16:14

Hi @Camzarella Happy Birthday for tomorrow! X

@Ebhc and @Amijustagrump how many DPO did your symptoms start?

Amijustagrump · 07/01/2021 16:20

@Merry20
Around 4dpo, currently 9 or 10 and still sore boobs and some cramps but I think I'm out this month.

Ebhc · 07/01/2021 16:42

I didn't track so not sure how many dpo. I've had cramps for a few days, sore boobs since yesterday and nausea today. Due AF on the 12th.