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Terrified of potential bfp

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marxkate · 31/12/2020 04:24

Hi all
I've not been active on here since 2015 so please cut me some slack! :)
We TTC for 2 years and ended up with fertility issues, had IVF, 2nd round had our twins. When they were 9 months old I fell pregnant naturally. It was a massive shock and I was adamant I was keeping the baby, with or without him. After a while he came round and we were okay.
We have had conversations since and both agreed definitely no more! We have ds 14 (dh's son I adopted when his mum left), twins at 7 and ds at 5.
Now low and behold, I'm pregnant again!! I think! 🤣
Lloyds test yesterday and both Lloyds and first response early result just now, all with faint lines.
I'm now absolutely terrified to tell him. As much as I was certain I wanted no more kids, now I've watched those lines get darker over the past 2 days I can't help but be excited. I'm 30 too so definitely no more chances what with prior issues too!
Any advice?
Thanks so much if you made it this far! X

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LouiseTrees · 31/12/2020 04:34

30 is still young. I think regardless of what happens it sounds like you want this baby but if you stay with this man or even just in general you need better contraception.

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