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camcw · 20/12/2020 08:01

Hi all,

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camcw · 23/12/2020 21:26

Thank you both for your words of support and advice. I'm so thankful for this forum, I've learned so much from everyone here.

@ivfbeenbusy I'm definitely going to take your advice and have a break for a cycle. I definitely think my body needs a 'reset', not to mention I could do with a break from the stress of it. I'm 35, so I don't have time on my side. I turned 35 about 10 days after my first MC Sad and have never felt so 'geriatric'. It's that horrible age that's always quoted when 'fertility drops', 'risk of miscarriage increases' etc etc...

I am incredibly lucky that I already have one DD (aged 2) who is of course my universe, and I thank my lucky stars for her every day. Part of my longing for a second is for her to have a sibling. I know lots of people struggle to have even one, so I know it might sound greedy. If she is my one and only, I will still be thankful every single day. But, I really hope we can complete our family with one more some day soon.

I'm going to ask to see the GP straight after Christmas - you're right I think it's important that I at least have it added to my notes that this has happened. Deep down I'm worried I might have a problem with my uterus lining not being thick enough. My periods have been ridiculously light for a while now, and even my miscarriage bleed was pretty light (at 6+4), so I'm going to raise that concern with her and see what she says.

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camcw · 23/12/2020 21:28

@Pudding01 I meant to say I'm so sorry to hear of your losses too, going through two ectopics must have been so, so hard, and a chemical as well just feels like rubbing salt in the wound.

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Pudding01 · 24/12/2020 07:34

❤ I totally understand where you're coming from. Hopefully the gp can do their checks and either give you reassurance or spot something they can help with. Just have a month grounding yourself and having cuddles from your baby and then get back on the horse.

I'm only giving myself a year this time as I tried for a year when my DD was 10 months and only had the chemical. So gave up. So c2 now and trying to be as cool as one can after going through multiple loses and about to turn 34 lol

Let me know how you get on x

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