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SS123456 · 07/12/2020 13:31

Just starting us up a new thread 😁

@Rotagilla
@kirinm
@whambam89
@Sansa87
@MrsB2019x

Who have I missed??

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SS123456 · 13/12/2020 10:51

Thank you @MrsB2019x , I'm petrified! The mc in Oct killed me so I am so scared of going through that again. I am sure you feel EXACTLY the same though.

Just got out all of my frers from oct and this 9dpo line is similar to my lines at 16/17dpo last time so hoping this means this one is more viable

I've stupidly been googling bfps at 9dpo as it just feels so early and it's swaying me between possible ectopics and twin pregnancies 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂. I have now stopped as I'll drive myself insane lol

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SS123456 · 13/12/2020 10:52

This is a better pic of the frer

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MrsB2019x · 13/12/2020 11:25

@SS123456 I can imagine, pregnancy after a loss is a totally different ball game!! You can apparently implant between 6 - 12dpo, by the sound of it you implanted around 6, so it makes sense to be showing up as early as 9dpo. Do you think you’ll book an early scan for reassurance?

Sansa87 · 13/12/2020 11:31

@SS123456 a previous loss definitely ruins the magic of pregnancy.

I still can’t get my hopes up, & I’m petrified of my 20 week scan on Friday.

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 11:44

@MrsB2019x yeah I think we likely will. When we booked the fertility clinic tests I asked what happened if I was to fall beforehand and they said if I wanted to I could 'transfer' the funds paid for the tests to another service so later next week if all is going ok I might ask if I can maybe have a scan or two and/or a consultation instead in the next few weeks or so

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whambam89 · 13/12/2020 12:45

@SS123456 oh wow, amazing! Congratulations ❤️ so pleased for you xx

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 12:50

Thank you @whambam89 ❤️

Is anyone else due to test soon? @kirinm how about you? 🤞🏻

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whambam89 · 13/12/2020 12:55

@ss123456 I don't even know what CD I'm on 😂 feeling really fed up at the moment hence being a little quiet.

So pleased for you though, do you think the preseed helped?? X

kirinm · 13/12/2020 12:58

I don't feel at all pregnant so not planning on testing. Not feeling optimistic.

Sorry you're feeling down @whambam89 I totally get it. It is tough x

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 13:23

@whambam89 I 100% get that! My cycles have been really confusing the last few months and it's so demoralising isn't it 😔

I really hope you get a surprise bfp @kirinm 🤞🏻😊

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SS123456 · 13/12/2020 14:54

@whambam89 I'm not convinced on the pre-seed as we have used it before with no luck

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LeopardLover · 13/12/2020 21:11

Hi ladies! I hope you don't mind me popping back on but I've been keeping an eye on the thread and sending you all positive vibes! Just wanted to say congratulations to @MrsB2019x and @SS123456, I'm sooo happy for you. 🎊❤️

I hope the rest of you get your BFPs soon 🙏🏻💖xxx

MrsB2019x · 13/12/2020 21:54

Hello stranger @LeopardLover! How are you doing? Xx

Sansa87 · 13/12/2020 21:58

I was hoping you’d pop in @LeopardLover now are you? Have you had your 20 week scan?

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 22:00

Thank you @LeopardLover ! How are you doing? 😁

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LeopardLover · 14/12/2020 07:44

@MrsB2019x @SS123456 @Sansa87 I'm good, thank you 😊 22 weeks now, scan went well (very nerve-racking doing it alone) and we're having a boy! He had his feet over his head the whole time so getting measurements was tough 🙈 I still get tummy pains but trying to relax as much as possible. I swear the anxiety never stops haha. I miss you ladies!! xx

kirinm · 14/12/2020 08:07

Have you tested again @SS123456 ? Your levels must be pretty high already to have got a positive digital! Maybe your bleeding was implantation after all?

MrsB2019x · 14/12/2020 08:10

@LeopardLover Wow that’s flown by! (Bet it doesn’t feel like it for you though 🙈) Congratulations on your boy! We miss you too, was nice to hear from you!

@SS123456 Have you done another test today? Eek I’m so excited for you!

@kirinm How are you doing today?

@whambam89 So sorry you’re having a rough time lovely 😔

kirinm · 14/12/2020 08:14

@MrsB2019x not too bad thanks. Not feeling very pregnant unfortunately. I think I'm either 8 or 9dpo. Not quite sure.

How are you feeling? Any symptoms to speak of yet?

Sansa87 · 14/12/2020 08:28

Congrats @LeopardLover!

We have our 20 week scan on Friday, shitting bricks here though 😂

We did have a private one at 16 weeks, & they said girl, but we don’t believe them. Baby was facing wrong way, so could still be a willy hiding, & also OH’s family don’t make girls. Only one in 90 years

MrsB2019x · 14/12/2020 08:44

@kirinm If it helps I don’t feel very pregnant either 😂 my boobs/nips are sore and I’m not sleeping, that’s about it. Are you gonna test in a few days or just wait to see if AF comes?

SS123456 · 14/12/2020 09:59

Ah amazing @LeopardLover , congratulations! 😁❤️

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SS123456 · 14/12/2020 10:00

@Sansa87 fingers crossed all will be well at the scan 😁🤞🏻. Can you feeling baby moving around now??

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krj2608 · 14/12/2020 10:02

I caved and tested, sort of see something on IC but probably just a shadow. It wasn't a long hold and was third morning wee.

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SS123456 · 14/12/2020 10:05

@kirinm I don't feel pregnant at all either so if you test at some point let us know 🤞🏻. I know you have issues with the ICs and wanted to say that I'm barely getting a squinter at all on those tests so don't be disheartened if you use those and don't see anything on them. If I wasn't using frer I would be none the wiser of the bfp at the moment

@MrsB2019x of course I tested again this morning 😂. The line was darker which is reassuring. The line on this one at 10dpo is actually darker than the line I had at 17dpo on my mc pregnancy so I'm cautiously optimistic that this seems more viable but I guess you never can know🤞🏻

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